HighPriestesss
I did many celtic spread readings last night at a Girl's Night Out event. For one querent in particular, I flipped over the first card and it was 2 of Cups. The first thing I said (or asked) was, "Oh! How's the love life?" as sort of an ice breaker.
She said, "YOU tell me!" (typical reply)
From then on, the total spread was unconnected and rote. "This card is in your past and it means blah blah blah....this is how other people in your environment see you and it means blah blah blah....this is your final outcome and it means blah blah blah."
I didn't have a clue what was going on, as I'm not intuitive (well, maybe I AM if I know what the situation is....do you know what I mean?) But with having no idea, I went into rote-mode.
Long story short, after she said nothing made sense, she reshuffled and we did it AGAIN. There were so many reversals and, again, nothing made sense, that I up-righted the deck and she reshuffled AGAIN.
She FINALLY uttered "That hit!" (Card 10) and explained what happened in her life. By golly, the cards weren't lying after all <roll eyes> and I was able to go back to Card 1 and read the spread. And after all of the spreads, I still did questions with 3-card spreads.
There are and always will be sitters who won't say a word. It makes it hard, but that's not really what bothers me here. What bothers me is the rote, book-memorized explanations that I have to resort to. Even the next sitter after, I felt stuck in that rote, robot-like position and then taking their money.
What am I doing wrong?
She said, "YOU tell me!" (typical reply)
From then on, the total spread was unconnected and rote. "This card is in your past and it means blah blah blah....this is how other people in your environment see you and it means blah blah blah....this is your final outcome and it means blah blah blah."
I didn't have a clue what was going on, as I'm not intuitive (well, maybe I AM if I know what the situation is....do you know what I mean?) But with having no idea, I went into rote-mode.
Long story short, after she said nothing made sense, she reshuffled and we did it AGAIN. There were so many reversals and, again, nothing made sense, that I up-righted the deck and she reshuffled AGAIN.
She FINALLY uttered "That hit!" (Card 10) and explained what happened in her life. By golly, the cards weren't lying after all <roll eyes> and I was able to go back to Card 1 and read the spread. And after all of the spreads, I still did questions with 3-card spreads.
There are and always will be sitters who won't say a word. It makes it hard, but that's not really what bothers me here. What bothers me is the rote, book-memorized explanations that I have to resort to. Even the next sitter after, I felt stuck in that rote, robot-like position and then taking their money.
What am I doing wrong?