ladyofhearts said:
hi...i was wondering how and if it matters when reading what deck you use. say if you are reading on one question. would it matter what deck is used? do you have to use different decks to get a different version of the answer? like the bohemian gothic, maybe would show a darker side to something. say, using the RW just a good standard deck, type answer. i hope everyone can understand me. lol. like, one deck gives you a lighter answer, one darker, one reads more intuitively, etc. any of you that have a good collection of decks i would love to hear from y'all...any insight on this! thanx
Full disclosure: At the moment I only own and use two decks (soon to be three. YAY!). However, about 15-20 decks have passed through my hands with varying speed, and I'm very particular about which deck I use for what, or whether I use a given deck at all.
What I have learned is that for me personally, the notion that "a good reader can read with any deck" is simply not true. It's not enough for me to like the art (or want to like the art), or like the structure, or like the theme. I have to feel some connection to the cards. I can't describe what that feels like exactly, but it's nothing external or psychic... to me, it's like trying on a new jacket and just *knowing* that it fits you so perfectly that you'll wear it to shreds.
If I don't get that knowing/comfortable/aha feeling, I can't work with a deck at all... without that feeling, it's just pictures.
When I do get that feeling, it's pretty easy to tell which deck will do a good job answering what; it's kind of instinctual from that point forward. Some decks just feel different from others... my Druidcraft feels very open to anything, so I use it for mundane stuff, other people and deeper stuff. My Celtic Wisdom deck feels better for spiritual or emotional matters - "meaning of life" questions as it were - and as yet, I keep that for myself. I have a feeling that the new deck coming to me will be good for "casual" readings... quick pulls, light stuff, people I don't know very well. I may be wrong, though... once I have it in my hands, it may turn out to have a completely different "personality," or it might not work for me at all.
Sometimes it's a matter of which deck feels best in the moment.
I don't ask the same question to two different decks. It only muddles things further in my mind, and makes it easier for me to "see what I want to see", instead of what I need to see.
On occasion, if I'm really stumped on a reading for myself, I'll do a reading from one deck and then go through and pull the *corresponding* cards from the other, to see if I can get a different perspective from the same cards.
So, for me, it matters. How did I find out? Handled a lot of different decks until I found some that blew my mind and realized what it was *supposed* to feel like. And how do I know which? I just do.
That's my two cents though... I know people who can read with anything, and do so far better than I can.