Silver Crow
OK - I'm having a bad day, and on top of it all I tried to have a rational conversation with a tarot reading friend about tarot buying.
She is under the assumption that if she finds "THE" deck, she will have all the answers, she won't have to work so hard to read and that it will just happen on it's own. Mind you, she's been reading for less than two years now and has amassed quite a collection in search of "the" one.
I'm here to say, I do not believe there is a "THE" deck. No deck in itself is going to read for you, it's not going to provide you will this automatic ability to read, to not have to work hard, and study, and hone your perception and intuition. NO deck is going to do that for you. There is no magic bullet deck out there that I know of.
My advice to her was to stop buying and start to learn to read with the decks she's already purchased. One at a time, REALLY get to know the deck. Learn the artists meanings, learn your own interpretation, learn the classic meanings and then make that deck work for you. When you can do that, move on to the next. You will find some decks just won't work for you, and others you may think in the beginning you can't work with will grow on you and some day become a favorite. But PLEASE stop looking for THE one and then call me crying because it wasn't magic!! IF she spent half the time she does looking for THE one actually learning how to read, she would be much better off.
OK - rant over. How do you feel about this?
She is under the assumption that if she finds "THE" deck, she will have all the answers, she won't have to work so hard to read and that it will just happen on it's own. Mind you, she's been reading for less than two years now and has amassed quite a collection in search of "the" one.
I'm here to say, I do not believe there is a "THE" deck. No deck in itself is going to read for you, it's not going to provide you will this automatic ability to read, to not have to work hard, and study, and hone your perception and intuition. NO deck is going to do that for you. There is no magic bullet deck out there that I know of.
My advice to her was to stop buying and start to learn to read with the decks she's already purchased. One at a time, REALLY get to know the deck. Learn the artists meanings, learn your own interpretation, learn the classic meanings and then make that deck work for you. When you can do that, move on to the next. You will find some decks just won't work for you, and others you may think in the beginning you can't work with will grow on you and some day become a favorite. But PLEASE stop looking for THE one and then call me crying because it wasn't magic!! IF she spent half the time she does looking for THE one actually learning how to read, she would be much better off.
OK - rant over. How do you feel about this?