I hear you franniee and I really sympathise.
I was at Borders yesterday looking at the tarot decks and a perfect stranger asked me if I read??? And on gut reaction I said yes...big mistake...
"Oh, do you have any cards on you, can you read for me right now!!!!!!!!!??????"
Are you buying some cards you could use those..."
(A side note here I should spend money to read for her!
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This took place within a matter of 2 minutes.
I think I was standing there looking like a deer in headlights that just had a bucket of cold water thrown on it.
I was so unprepared for such a response.
Now other people might come along in this thread and say..."OH, well you missed such a golden opportunity to have a wonderful experience reading for this person."
Blah blah blah.
Oh, you should read at every opportunity...
Blah blah blah
And to those people I say fine you do what you want, but me I'm putting up some boundaries...
And business has actually been hopping so I don't see that honoring myself and taking care of my needs has hurt in anyway, if anything it has helped...I'm a better reader for it.
I came to Borders to relax, get away from it all, and have a little me time.
And I felt accosted...like my personal space was w-a-y invaded...
I kept thinking gee, if I was a doctor would she show me her funny wart with the hair growing out of it?
If I was a lawyer would she pull her divorce papers out of her purse and ask me to have a look see?
If I was a Chef would she ask me to pop into the cafe there and whip her up a snack???
OMG no...that would be rude, and off the wall, but I guess tarot readers have no boundary..or so people think.
I have no wise words...I just told her I read by appointment only and gave her my card...
She looked surprised and I don't think expected a professional response like that...
But I do know if we don't place boundaries at least for myself, I get burnt out and that's not good for anyone around me.
And I don't know about you, but I'm damn grumpy when I'm burnt out