Amanda_04
06-04-2011, 13:31
Dear sitter,
This is going to be short and to the point with all that I've had going on, and with no one else signing up (and I wrote this up yesterday). I hope it still resonates and you can find meaning in it.
1. What demands are placed on you by others? - Knight of Swords
I would say that others expect you to know the answer, direct them, or deal with their problems on their behalf.
2. What demands do you place on yourself? - Hermit rx.
I would say that you're overly critical of yourself, especially if an answer doesn't immediately come to you on what to do about something. Perhaps you doubt yourself a great deal more than the others who expect so much of you, do.
3. What are your limits? What is your breaking point? - Page of Wands rx.
I would say that when you just want to throw your hands up in the air- when you feel like you can't do everything or please everyone, you perhaps then do nothing and temporarily hide out for a little while away from everyone and everything.
4. How can you respect your limits and relax? - Empress rx.
Make sure your own house is in order before you go taking in strays. Don't rob people of taking care of themselves either. Others may ask you for your help, but you must learn to react in a way that allows them to take care of themselves; that allows them to answer their own questions... basically, shove them gently, out of your nest. ;) Try not to let yourself get too worked up if they don't do what you expect them to do, and if they aren't taking your advice after asking for it, quit giving it to them- it's a waste and it burns up your energy.
5. How can you turn these pressures into an advantage? - 4 of Cups rx.
Peaple love and respect you a great deal; they rely on you because you've always been there for them to lend a helping hand. Now, it's time for you to know and realize this and that it's okay to ask for help and re-establish better boundaries in order to make sure you are fully satisfied in order to be able to keep on giving.
Base: 2 of Wands rx. - Something that really burns your butt is when things don't go to plan, or don't work out the way that you expected them to; but sometimes, life has other plans! :) Try to see it as life giving you a helping hand, and run with it.
You can begin your feedback anytime now (and sorry for the wait). I'll try to get around to getting a summary up soon. :)
Hope this reading helps and makes sense!
Amanda
This is going to be short and to the point with all that I've had going on, and with no one else signing up (and I wrote this up yesterday). I hope it still resonates and you can find meaning in it.
1. What demands are placed on you by others? - Knight of Swords
I would say that others expect you to know the answer, direct them, or deal with their problems on their behalf.
2. What demands do you place on yourself? - Hermit rx.
I would say that you're overly critical of yourself, especially if an answer doesn't immediately come to you on what to do about something. Perhaps you doubt yourself a great deal more than the others who expect so much of you, do.
3. What are your limits? What is your breaking point? - Page of Wands rx.
I would say that when you just want to throw your hands up in the air- when you feel like you can't do everything or please everyone, you perhaps then do nothing and temporarily hide out for a little while away from everyone and everything.
4. How can you respect your limits and relax? - Empress rx.
Make sure your own house is in order before you go taking in strays. Don't rob people of taking care of themselves either. Others may ask you for your help, but you must learn to react in a way that allows them to take care of themselves; that allows them to answer their own questions... basically, shove them gently, out of your nest. ;) Try not to let yourself get too worked up if they don't do what you expect them to do, and if they aren't taking your advice after asking for it, quit giving it to them- it's a waste and it burns up your energy.
5. How can you turn these pressures into an advantage? - 4 of Cups rx.
Peaple love and respect you a great deal; they rely on you because you've always been there for them to lend a helping hand. Now, it's time for you to know and realize this and that it's okay to ask for help and re-establish better boundaries in order to make sure you are fully satisfied in order to be able to keep on giving.
Base: 2 of Wands rx. - Something that really burns your butt is when things don't go to plan, or don't work out the way that you expected them to; but sometimes, life has other plans! :) Try to see it as life giving you a helping hand, and run with it.
You can begin your feedback anytime now (and sorry for the wait). I'll try to get around to getting a summary up soon. :)
Hope this reading helps and makes sense!
Amanda