Hi folks, I have a friend whoever spouse recently died. She asked me if it was possible for her to find out if her husband had something to tell her through the tarot... I known there are other tools for this type of stuff ... I don't know if this is possible with the tarot. Would anyone of you know if this has been done? Is there a spread for this?
Absolultey possible. The answers in Tarot will come from the source we ask them to come from. EG usually, for me, I ask for my angels (or those of the querent) to send me the answers to the question. But you can just as easily ask for them to come from the deceased person themselves or in other words address the question to them. EG Keep them in mind and their name and ASK them for the answers, ask them what they want to tell their loved one. Just like if two people (Bob and Carol) were sitting in the room with you, you could just as easily address the question to whichever one you choose.
You can just ask the question: "Bob, (replace with the name of the deceased) what would you most like to tell Sarah (replace with the name of the querent) right now? Or a similar question.
I don't usually use spreads anyway and I wouldnt suggest one her personally, just a direct coversation. A spread forces the cards to answer in a certain way. To me this ought to be a conversation, where he/she can just freely tell you what they want to. Pull as many cards as you feel necessary. If something comes up you want clarification on you can ask more questions and pull more cards.
Any deck you feel bonded with and that calls to you for that reading ought to work well.
I did do it once for a coworkers whose best friend whom he'd know since forever had just passed on. I heard it felt very accurate to him and was very comforting.
Babs