I feel for you, but I'm afraid you are only upsetting yourself more by asking this question again and again on the various free reading sites. It's only my opinion for what it's worth, but I don't think you will find answers through these computer generated readings.
They can be a fun, especially for those who are unfamiliar with Tarot. These people can get a look at the different cards and a very general feel for what it's all about. But accuracy, I don't think so.
You are truly in pain about this situation, please don't put too much value to these computer readings. I also have to wonder what sort of friend would put this idea in you mind, for what possible good? I'm not saying your husband is guilty or innocent, but I hope you can find a way to sort of step back from this whole idea, and not jump to conclusions one way or the other.
I don't think we can make any referals or suggestions about different readers in these forums, so I don't want to step on anyone's toes. If you qualify for the reading exchange or posting your own reading for help with interpretations, that could be helpful.
I guess the best I can say is that your time and energy might be better spent by seeking a more "live" and personal reading.
I'm sending you my strongest feelings of light and peace.