Are two gemini's compatible as lovers?

Gayla

I've met a guy..who is super nice...I really think there may be a connection, but he is a Gemini...and so am I.

But...I'm 22 May and he is 20 June...opposites ends of the spectrum.

I have always heard Gemini + Gemini = disaster

Is it so?

:)
 

paradoxx

This is (in my opinion) where cusps come in very predominantly. You ar e amore stable gemini, you are more physical than he is, and he is by far more emotional than imagined. His energy level moves back and forth, while yours is more of a steady increase followed by a steady decrease, your conversations would be lively.

Take a look at the mars and venus in your charts to see what actually works for compatability, and since you are both ruled by mercury, take a look at that as well, an overdose of Gemini energy might make it difficult for you to be realistic in your relations.

I also have 20 june as my birthday, it is hard to handle all that Solar energy.
 

Gayla

:) Thanks. :)

I will look into that..I have much to learn about astrology, but I would really like to make this relationship work...but I fear I may be too much for him....I did sense it.
And, yes, I picked up on his high level of emotion...not sure I can handle that...but again, I would really like to make it work...
 

cheekyminx

22 May
Cusp Taurus/gemini

20 June Gemini/little bit of Cancer

One of my best mates is a Gemini & we get on like a house on fire, we're very similar but his moon is in Taurus & mine is in Scorpio. Both our rising signs are in Air as well lol Me gemini and him Aquarius :)
 

Belatrix

The fact that both partners are Gemini is a good point to start,but we only know here that they might communicate good.As Gemini is the sign of communication.
If you`re Tarot specialist,use that knowledge here.
 

sweet_intuition

Hey Gayla,

When the two of you get talking, it may seem like a whole room full of people. Both of you love playing with ideas, and you are perfectly willing to contradict yourselves and each other because it's so much fun to discuss and explore. You are both restless, adaptable, versatile souls, and both seek a partner who is intelligent and alive from the neck up.

You both have a low boredom threshold, and neither of you likes to be possessed or caged. If you share intellectual interests or a field of work, all the better - you are likely to offer endless inspiration to each other. This could be a wonderfully exciting and lively combination.

But be careful. Both of you will, from time to time, secretly long for a tranquil, restful relationship. Don't expect the other to provide it for any extended period of time. Neither of you is really suited to the caretaker role.

You can both be warm, nurturing, and understanding - for a while, until your interests move elsewhere and you start feeling stifled. Get someone else to do the caretaking, and learn to enjoy chaos together. A changeful life full of travel and variety would suit you both.

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Hope this helps :)

Love and Blessings
 

Gayla

"Yes!!!" "We will both have a low boredom threshold"..which tells me traditional dating might not be the right way to go with this guy...I hate sitting in movie theaters, cafe's and such...but I don't want to get too cozy to quick with him....he appears to feel the same way.

I have already tired it once with another gemini/cancer...the initial attraction was electric..but fizzled really quickly...I would like to try and learn from that, since these gemini/cancer guys keep centering in front of me...

Could there be a deeper meaning here? This is the second guy in the last few weeks I have met ..one June 19..and this guy June 20? hmmmm...
 

Voron

Gemini's might be better for an arrangement of "friends with benefits" so they can have the companionship when they want it, but the freedom and ability to explore new people *ahem* things if they're bored/restless....
 

Gayla

That's a good point Voron..because the relationship fizzled..we ended up just agreeing to be friends...


...but now :D...there is a cute, Pices, guy I am talking too...so what's the outlook on Gemini + Pices....:)

My goodness..I hope I don't have to go through the whole astological wheel to finally get it right...;)
 

YDM42

I know of a good many Gemini Gemini couples. All have good marriages and were loyal to one another. I think it works better if one is proud of the other, and the other then becomes a representitive an aspect of them...know what I mean. A nother Identity that they can claim. If the person is someone you feel a deep sense of pride about, things will work out fine- he becomes an extenstion of you.

Gayla said:
I've met a guy..who is super nice...I really think there may be a connection, but he is a Gemini...and so am I.

But...I'm 22 May and he is 20 June...opposites ends of the spectrum.

I have always heard Gemini + Gemini = disaster

Is it so?

:)