Solitaire* said:
I don't know whether it's possible to contact the dead using tarot, but I've asked the cards "If my late husband could give me a message through these cards, what would it be?" and gotten such a startling answer that I'm forever impressed.
I've had a similar experience using the cards and just like you, I wasn't necessarily trying to use the cards to contact my late father, I just to see if they could tell me anything.
This all started one night about two years ago when I was sitting on the corner of the sofa (I was up and couldn't sleep at all..I was worried about something) and all of a sudden I felt someone place a strong hand on my shoulder. I felt the pressure "or squeeze" for several seconds and then it was gone. Even before I turned around, I knew it wasn't my husband. It "felt" like my dad. It was very reassuring, like he was saying "I'm here." I didn't sense a presence coming or going either--just the hand.
This experience wouldn't leave my mind. So I decided to do a spread on it a few months later using the New Palladini deck. It was a deck I hadn't used before but I felt drawn to using it. I used Thirteen's World spread about finding a missing person; however, I changed the 5th card slightly to be just "advice or more information" and added a 6th "message" card. The cards were spot on. In fact, in the position for "where he is emotionally/psychologically" I got the four of swords which makes sense because he is resting in his grave. It could also refer to the fact that before he died he was recovering from serious injuries, including brain damage that had affected his personality.
But the most telling was the last card--the message card. It was the King of Rods. It wasn't until I picked up the card and really looked at it that I gasped. There is image of a roaring lion on the upper sleeve of the King's. My father's totem was a lion--he even wore a lion ring which he had had for as long as I can remember. I felt as if it was a sign from the universe telling me that my dad is beside me when I need him.
I have also had another thing happen that I think was my late father interacting with me. I personally don't think he did anything to the cards though--I think it was me just tapping into either my own knowledge or that I was connecting with universal knowledge.