Schehrazada
Hi AT community!
This is my first thread! Yeee! I had an experience these days that I thought about and I think that you can help me with your opinions. In a reading exchange, I received a nice reading from a member of AT and, in return, this person asked me for another reading. I did my first reading, through which I thought all the questions had been answered. I received the feedback for this reading very general, nothing specific.
After that, this person, being a tarot reader themselves, asked me for another question that I thought was pretty clear from the first reading. Of course, the second reading came out to say more or less the same, with some more details. I guess it happened the same as it happens to me when I read over and over for myself, the cards just tell me to give it up! LOL
Anyhow, I didn't obtain much feedback from this reading. Instead, the person said that it was wrong and that they would answer why on the next day. The day passed by, and nothing happened, so I PM'd the person asking for their feedback, to what they said to me that my reading was confusing to them.
After that, I offered to lay out the reading again, perhaps explaining card by card. Being a tarot reader doesn't guarantee that we are first nobel prizes in writing, right? But the person kept saying that I confused them even more and that I needed more practice.
I am cool with that, I know already that I need more practice. But why not tell me Where I failed or What I failed to see? If this person is in denial, then I understand, perhaps they didn't like what I saw in the cards, which happens sometimes. But coming from our own community, I am very disappointed on this person and perhaps I was expecting a better learning environment.
Shouldn't we know that we need to help each other in this environment? If not, why even be here at AT? Also, have you had similar experiencies here at AT?
I am grateful because I've learned tons since I joined this forum. It has been one of my best experiences with tarot: to be able to share with others that have my same passion.
Love,
S.
This is my first thread! Yeee! I had an experience these days that I thought about and I think that you can help me with your opinions. In a reading exchange, I received a nice reading from a member of AT and, in return, this person asked me for another reading. I did my first reading, through which I thought all the questions had been answered. I received the feedback for this reading very general, nothing specific.
After that, this person, being a tarot reader themselves, asked me for another question that I thought was pretty clear from the first reading. Of course, the second reading came out to say more or less the same, with some more details. I guess it happened the same as it happens to me when I read over and over for myself, the cards just tell me to give it up! LOL
Anyhow, I didn't obtain much feedback from this reading. Instead, the person said that it was wrong and that they would answer why on the next day. The day passed by, and nothing happened, so I PM'd the person asking for their feedback, to what they said to me that my reading was confusing to them.
After that, I offered to lay out the reading again, perhaps explaining card by card. Being a tarot reader doesn't guarantee that we are first nobel prizes in writing, right? But the person kept saying that I confused them even more and that I needed more practice.
I am cool with that, I know already that I need more practice. But why not tell me Where I failed or What I failed to see? If this person is in denial, then I understand, perhaps they didn't like what I saw in the cards, which happens sometimes. But coming from our own community, I am very disappointed on this person and perhaps I was expecting a better learning environment.
Shouldn't we know that we need to help each other in this environment? If not, why even be here at AT? Also, have you had similar experiencies here at AT?
I am grateful because I've learned tons since I joined this forum. It has been one of my best experiences with tarot: to be able to share with others that have my same passion.
Love,
S.