hi shadow!
the only thing u need to help connect to the fae is ur intended thought
The more focused intended thought u have the closer youll get to them. Just talk to them lik eu would a friend already, in your mind or outloud- they lik ethat
I have fae that live in my house and in my garden they are a lively crew too lol I'm quite a private person myself about my spirituality well unles its around AT
In my home I have a lovely bowl getting very full of all sorts of crystals, fae LOVE shiny things, sweet things, glittery things and MUSIC! They love music and they love seeing u enjoy music too, dance, sing, hum, be silly - they love it and any attempt we humans make to connect with them. Just ask them that they have patience with you as you learn how to connect with them and that you wish them no ill will and will they kindly ofer you only protection and knowledge and how to better communicat ewith them- theyll know if ur menainful or not
u could make a nature bowl in ur house if u want something low key and unobtrusive, collect a leaf from a woodland walk, or a seashell, or a pebble you see in your travels. Pinecones, rosehips, acorns, feathers, whatever u find.....Fae are outdoorsy kind so anything relateing to nature in you rhome they will love and find; even a basic green house plant
I remember my very first fae sighting and yes I KNOW it was a real fae without a doubt all I was doing was reading a book about the FAE, and we connected visually it was pure magic
Nothing huge but just a nod and a smile shared- while i dropped my jaw to the floor like a guppy fish! I couldnt beleive it- but it really hapened to me lol
I now have a fae stautue in my house and knick knacks of things they like, shiny stones, a rainbow colored glass that is just for them, it makes me smile when i walk past these things and i rememebr my fae are close at hand. Also i notice it in my garden too as I have plants that bloom all year when they shouldnt in freezing weather!
so have no fear nad rest assured there are others who talk and enjoy teh fae too
bright blessings xx