There are probably lots of threads, but I know what you mean, I was just thinking about this tonight while I was reading the book to the Bohemian Gothic Tarot.
I admire Shirley McLaine's acting work, think she's tops, but until my own immersion in Tarot I've would have gladly told anyone she was an absolute kook personally. Now I know a lot more about the things she has enjoyed for years, charka work in particular and she seems as normal as can be.
Anyway, what I was wondering while reading what Karen had to say about Waite and naming the suits, if I understood her right there wasn't a pentacle suit prior to the RWS deck, that was coins or discs. Even though I would defend my enjoyment of tarot to the death
the word pentacles still creeps me out. I find myself conveniently using the word pents as if I'm just in a hurry...no, I just don't want to say it or spell it
People... some days you just can't please anyone.
But back to your question, we are in the minority and anything that isn't comfortable or popular with the mass majority will always be looked at with askance.
Welcome to AT
and the dark side
PS my parents were rockhounds, surrounded by friends who were sedentry bookworms. They all thought my parents were kooks.