Mariana said:
But how do you handle all of them looking at you with those big eyes that beg you to love them and spend time with them, when you can't? That's what makes me find them new homes every time...
As VGimlet says, I'm a collector. Plus I know that I'd have to live to be a few hundred years old to learn, use and love all of the decks I currently have in my collection, and that's not even adding in the decks I know I'll buy in the future.
So, yes, unfortunately there are decks in my collection that will probably never get used (by me at least). But I can't definitively say which ones those will be. (Well, I
could say, but I'm sure next month my answer would be different, as it would be the month after that and the month after that,
ad nauseum.)
I'm not a huge fan of either TdM decks or pip decks. And I have a lot of them in my collection. While I could get rid of all of them cause I don't use them, 6 months from now, I could wake up and decide I'm going to learn and use a TdM or pip deck.* If I've gotten rid of them all cause they're not to my current tastes, I'll have to acquire one or more decks (probably requiring at a more expensive price something I used to have!) before I can start.
When I want to use/study/look at a tarot deck, I want it right then. I don't want to have to order it or go to the store to get it. If it's not readily accessible, I'll move on to something else that
is accessible. So, even if something isn't to my tastes right now, I still keep it around cause I have no way of knowing when I might have a hankering for it and if I miss that window of interest, who knows when or if I'll get another hankering for it in the future.
*- (Something similar happened to me with food. For the first 5 or so years after I came to California, you couldn't pay me to eat Mexican food. Didn't grow up with it. It wasn't an option. It wasn't even on my radar. One day I woke up with a hankering for Mexican food and I've been eating it ever since.)
Rodney