7 of wands - feelings for me????

[Natsukashii87]

Whenever I asked about how F and MK feels for me, I always see 7 of wands.

F is someone I went blind date with, I only met him once. Often I see 10 of wands too. I simply can't understand why he feel so wandy towards me. We just had a simple chat for only 2 hours. 7 of wands often appeared after the meetup, does that mean he has great turmoil inside him with regards to how he feels for me?

As for MK he is my colleague, he did the pursue which later he retreated. Recently I asked how he feels for me, 7 of wands started to keep appearing too. My friend told me just let him have the turmoil/fight within himself and I shouldn't bother.

There was once MK and I took lift together, I kept talking to another guy colleague and ignored his presence. So I asked how MK feels, again 7 of wands appeared...

What are the 7 of wands trying to tell me here? I can't figure out what I did to those guys especially F...

Can someone please help me? Probably I can improve/change something about me so that guys won't feel 7 of wands/10 of wands about me

 

[Friture]

My novice take is simply standing firm on what they feel for/about you. If they do not take any other actions like pursuing you, they won't. If they do they will keep on continuing. They might want to pursue you, like go after what they want. They could also feel there's competition, and they need to constantly prove themselves. It could also mean jealousy. Do you create situations where they'd feel jealous and so are unsure of proceeding?

Just a thought.

 

[Natsukashii87]

My novice take is simply standing firm on what they feel for/about you. If they do not take any other actions like pursuing you, they won't. If they do they will keep on continuing. They might want to pursue you, like go after what they want. They could also feel there's competition, and they need to constantly prove themselves. It could also mean jealousy. Do you create situations where they'd feel jealous and so are unsure of proceeding?

Just a thought.

For my blind date guy, I honestly answer his Qs that I lunch with 2 guy colleagues... Probably he feels the competition. He said will contact me and I stupidly believe and still waiting.

As for MK my male colleague, he retreated himself first... So he could be feeling jealousy when I talk to another male colleague? I remembered before 7 of Wands is king of cups, which he is actually controlling his emotions...

 

[PAMUYA]

For my blind date guy, I honestly answer his Qs that I lunch with 2 guy colleagues... Probably he feels the competition. He said will contact me and I stupidly believe and still waiting.

As for MK my male colleague, he retreated himself first... So he could be feeling jealousy when I talk to another male colleague? I remembered before 7 of Wands is king of cups, which he is actually controlling his emotions...

His feelings is that he dated you and that you and him are not a match. He is standing on his high ground and backing away. He is feeling defensive.

 

[tarotbear]

Usually at a point like this, I have to ask you if you see the main figure in the 7 Wands as them ~ or could it be you?

Generally speaking in a card such as this - where characters are drawn on two different planes you have to ask yourself if you are the attacker - or the attacked? It's like the 5 Swords - are you the victor or the defeated?

Just asking ....

 

[Natsukashii87]

His feelings is that he dated you and that you and him are not a match. He is standing on his high ground and backing away. He is feeling defensive.

Possible

 

[Natsukashii87]

Usually at a point like this, I have to ask you if you see the main figure in the 7 Wands as them ~ or could it be you?

Generally speaking in a card such as this - where characters are drawn on two different planes you have to ask yourself if you are the attacker - or the attacked? It's like the 5 Swords - are you the victor or the defeated?

Just asking ....

I always see those fighting men as they themselves. Because when I ask the Q how they feel for me, my subject always focus on them... So naturally I took those cards as their feelings, not mine.

 

[Anna Supertramp]

7 of Wands also strikes me as a very defensive card, at least in this case. I don't think it's an internal fight inside of them, but more directed towards you. It doesn't look like any of these two are a good match. 10 of Wands can also indicate that they think you are 'too much work', whatever that means to them . Could mean that you're challenging them too much, or maybe they see you as a high-maintenance person? They could possibly also think that you 'came on too strong', so they feel the need to retrieve? Sorry, don't want to imply anything here, just tossing ideas around...

 

[Intotouch]

I would agree with what the others have said. The seven as someone who is defensive and maybe even fighting you off, and the ten as overburdened, not wanting this relationship.

Just because someone feels a certain way though doesn't mean that there is a rational reason behind it. People can be deeply irrational so if you don't understand his behviour or reaction I wouldn't worry about it. It probably has little to do with you and more to do with his past or what he wants.

 

[Natsukashii87]

High maintenance is highly possible, he could feel so.

I remember getting 7 of wands for myself, I felt skeptical about things like whether things are going to work etc..

Does 7 of wands means doubting or being skeptical too?