Sorry if I offend anyone on a certain thread in the readings section, but I think there are some questions which it is wise not to ask...for instance yes/no questions on the subject of national security, 'will x person die tomorrow' etc!
Does anyone else have any further questions which they view unwise to ask?
Definitely questions on how to harm people, how to take revenge...Would not touch those with a 10 foot pole.
Also something I learnt when I started to read and that I now do really believe in...that it is not appropriate to ask the cards what you
should do. The cards are there as a took to help us decide, but not to decide for us. We still have to make our own life decisions as there are important life lessons in the decision making that we need to learn.
I get a lot of querents asking what they should do and I tell him imo that is not an appropriate question and why. There are a number of other ways around it. Like asking the consequences/outcomes off all the choices the querent might make. And then they can choose the one they like best.
Or determining what it is the querent actually wants to accomplish and asking the cards the best way to get there.
Eg if they want to know what they should do to feel better we can ask what can the do (or what they need to know) to feel better. If they want to know what they should do financially we can ask what steps they can take to end up in the best financial position. Then they can TAKE them and create that future.
Pretty well any question asked for a negative reason, without real concern for any others involved in the situation would feel wrong to me. I would not read on them. I have of course refused to read on certain questions when they set off my warning bells.
It also doesn't tend to be wise to ask the winning lottery numbers. LOL It never works anyway or all readers would be millionaires. If you are not meant to be a millionaire the cards will not answer that question. If you are meant to be one, then you will be no matter what you say or do and then there is no need to ask.
And yes I agree, it does not tend to be a good idea imo also to ask when someone will die. I have had people ask me if their family member will survive an upcoming operation. I had to stop and ask her if she REALLY wants to know that. What if the answer were no, does she really want to know that a month in advance before the operation takes place. The woman who asked me that immediately said NO when I pointed that out.
I have often had to do that, literally ASK people if they are SURE they are ready to hear whatever comes up. Telling them that once I ask I have no control over what comes up. So on touchy difficult topic I ask them if they are SURE they are ready to handle anything that may come up. Often they say no. Sometimes people just want a reading for comfort but dont realize the cards may not give them a different answer from what they hope for. SO on hard questions (life and death), I make sure they are ready to hear anything that may come up or I will not ask for them. And even then some quesitons I don;t feel totally comforatable with.
I have to play that by ear. When I feel uncomfortable with a question, i don't read on it.
Babs