So, marriage is always about true love, and affairs are *always* about temptation, never true love?
Lovers Card Story (in my view, at least): John Lennon met his first wife, Cynthia, when he was young and unknown. In spite of light affairs with other girls while on the road, he always returned to her. This romance I'd say was very 6/Cups. She was his "known joy." Liverpool born like him, his girlfriend from way back. A comfort zone. When she got pregnant, he married her, as that's what Liverpool lads did in those days when their girls got pregnant. Had his career in music fizzled, he probably would have lived out his life with her and their son in Liverpool, perfectly happy. But John became a global phenomenon. Now, he had plenty of quick affairs as the Beatles went from city to city. YOU would say that these affairs were the Lovers card, as they involved back staircases and service elevators. I'd argue that these were
The Lovers rx only. Why? Because John never thought of leaving his wife. He had affair after affair and was never willing to change his status with Cynthia for any of them.
On meeting Yoko Ono, however, he was willing to do just about anything: divorce his wife, and bring the Beatle's break-up to a head. Yoko wasn't known or comfortable like Cynthia, quite the opposite. She was, however, an inspiration, an equal partner, his other half. She transformed him. He was so attached, that Yoko insisted they have a year off from each other so that they could create individually for a while. He was miserable the whole time. He begged her to come back to him, and gave up everything that he hadn't even considered giving up for Cynthia in order to get her to stay...including other women. That's right. No more affairs, he was faithful to her and only her from then on. This story, to me, is a prime example of "The Lovers" card.
So. I will totally agree that the Lovers can indicate an affair--and that's pretty alarming if you're Cynthia and it comes up in a reading about your husband. But why, exactly, do you think that "affair" can't mean "true love"? Men and women should marry for true love, but often they don't. And if they don't, then when they DO find true love...well, there's your affair. The Lovers, however is NOT about marriage or affairs (I can give you a personal, true Lovers story, my own, that was not an affair and did end in marriage--roughest time of my life, but I made the right choice; I bring this up so that no one thinks the Lovers is always about affairs, as you seem to be implying). The status of the Lovers doesn't matter to the card. All it's about for sure (IMHO) is that there will be true love, and that it won't be easy. Which is why, I think, we can all agree on that the Lovers choice is always a tough one, and we'd rather see the 2/Cups instead.