Leandra88
How can I best deal with what is going on in our connection with A?
Hi amaya, thank you for sitting
Yang (rx)
This card depicts two hands reaching out towards the sitter. Above the hands is a ball of fire with the oracle's face in the middle. This card typically refers to the masculine energy and making things happen. However, in this deck, all reversals are read as a "protection" message, and can sometimes differ from the traditional, upright meaning.
Protection Message:
"Be mindful of the tendency towards impulsive action, over-confidence, and aggressive behavior. Think before you act, lest you find yourself in a situation that will lead to uncomfortable consequences. Be sure you really want what you're chasing after, because you might be sorry when you get it. The appearance of this card isn't cause for fear, for life is all about learning lessons. Practice temperance, diplomacy, and thoughtful consideration before making a move."
Wow, I think the message here is very direct and straightforward. I'm not sure what the situation is between you and A at the moment, but this card suggest that you spend some time really reflecting on the issues between you and if moving forward with him is truly what you desire. There is a strong message here to proceed with caution, and not jump into anything impulsively without doing your research first, so to speak. I hope this helps!