how tarot can be right

Thread originally posted on the Aeclectic Tarot Forum on 17 Nov 2003, and now archived in the Forum Library.

yochi	17 Nov 2003
Today I broke up with my boyfriend. I felt that he was the love of my life but it seems that he didn´t feel the same about me. I feel terrible, thought be´ve been dating only for 6 months I felt something hard for him, I loved to hugged him. My tarot spreads always told me that he wasn´t right for also did the people that sorround me... no they only say I told you and it´s for the best... I found it incredible how a spread can be so similar to life... I just wanted to say this. I´m feeling really sad at the moment like if a little candle inside of me has been blown...

Cassiopeia	17 Nov 2003
Hi Luli, Sorry you are feeling so bad at the moment, relationship breakups are very tough. You will get through sweetheart :) just takes time. I hate when people say "I told you say", it really dosnt help does it? But it is incredible how tarot can mirror our lives so accurately, it just dosnt always tell us what we want to hear. I'll be thinking of you, Cass x

skytwig	17 Nov 2003
Quote: Originally posted by yochi My tarot spreads always told me that he wasn´t right I found it incredible how a spread can be so similar to life... Hugs to you, yochi ...... More than likely, when you do a future throw for love in your life, you will see that someone else will be coming into your life..... We can learn from experiences like these, that the cards can help us avoid a lot of pain.... Maybe when you meet another person of potential interest (and you will :) ), then you could seek guidance in your cards as to whether to pursue the relationship or not..... Take care of yourself :)

Marion	17 Nov 2003
Yes, hugs from me too! Sometimes knowing problems in advance helps, and sometimes it really doesn't. Sorry you are feeling so sad.

tarotbrat	17 Nov 2003
hello yochi, i am sorry to hear of your breakup, it is difficult to let go of someone that you are in love with. i just recently had a couple of break ups, unfortunately, they both walked out on me. right before my second break up, i did a reading and it showed me that it was going to happen. so the cards may not tell you what you want to hear, but they tell you the truth. but it is true that when you do a reading for yourself, when you are ready, you will see that someone else will come into your life that is deserving of all your love as you will be of the other person. i also give you a comforting hug. take care.

ros	17 Nov 2003
"For every dream that's shattered, another one comes true!"

Requiella	17 Nov 2003
For some reason that phrase has always been comforting to me; hopefully it is for you too, Yochi. I've been through several breakups of my own, and the only advice I have for you is to take time for yourself, be patient with your emotions, and give yourself time to heal. You'll get through this!! hugs, Requiella

LadyMedusa	17 Nov 2003
Yochi, Loosing a love can be very painful indeed. The pain of a broken heart is as real as the pain of a broken bone. It will take time to sort yourself out after a break-up. Make sure you give yourself some YOU time every day. While you are in the tear filled part of your grieving remember to drink enough water to replace the tears you shed. One day you will will catch yourself smiling through the tears at the good memories, and eventually you will be able to smile at those memories without the tears. LadyMedusa

Star Spirit	18 Nov 2003
Good luck to you, yochi. I know what that's like.

Kiama	18 Nov 2003
Yochi, I'm sorry this happened to you, and I know it is always hard when it does. However, why not try to focus on all the happy times you enjoyed with him? Maybe you could do a reading asking what you got out of the relationship, how it benefitted you, what you learned, how you grew, etc. Often we learn alot in one relationship that can help us make our next relationship something really beautiful. *Hugs* Kiama

Indigo Rose	18 Nov 2003
Sorry Yochi. I know your heart is hurting. I have been there and know that all too familiar sting. As for the forewarning in your Tarot reading, this happened to me. The truth was told to me but I could not bear to accept it at the time. Yet, it planted a small seed in my heart so that when the inevitable happened it wasn't really a shock...it still hurt, but it wasn't a true shock. Hang in there and know that your spirit is embraced by the love and encouragement of others here. Blessings!

Sulis	18 Nov 2003
(((((((((((luli)))))))))))))) Big hugs are winging their way across the ocean to you. Idon't know how tarot works, I just know it does. I'm sorry you're feeling so sad. Time is a great healer of broken hearts. Love and light Sulis xx

yochi	18 Nov 2003
thank you so much to all of you guys... for al your support at this moment... a really hard moment for me... I´m going to miss him so much.... now I´m crying, but this emotion wil pass soon... I hope so.... love luli

Majecot	18 Nov 2003
Yochi... I am sorry you are so sad :( ... It is amazing how right the cards are sometimes.

Mystic Zyl	18 Nov 2003
Yochi, my story is something like yours. A boyfriend of mine gave me his own personal deck of tarot cards he had owned for 7 years. I was thrilled, I asked him to do a reading for me. The reading ended in the Ace of Cups reversed. Well needless to say he sort of glossed by the card and did not tell me much about it. I did not know how to read at the time. But I went out and bought a book, I think it was by Scott Hollendar, and I was shocked to find out the interruption. Needless to say I did the reading over for myself and ironically the same Ace of Cups came up reversed! I have found that it is not irony when the same cards appear. You are drawn to the certain energy of the card, and continue to pick it everytime. Long story short I started a journal of questions and answers. The cards proved to be right, all the time. I became a believer through my unorthrodox methods of testing the cards. Yes, we broke up. It was the best thing for me, even though we were planning to be married. The Universe found a better man for me. I feel the purpose of my meeting him was to become a tarot reader. Good luck in the future, and remember, men are like buses there will be another coming by shortly, to a better destination.

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