Disconnecting

Thread originally posted on the Aeclectic Tarot Forum on 14 Mar 2002, and now archived in the Forum Library.

Mateo06	14 Mar 2002
Ok. Today i was talkin to one of my good friends. And i knew right away something was wrong and i guess exactly wat was wrong... then i talked with her for a while longer and as we talked i grew tired... Not physically but more emotionaly. Its hard to explain. I just didn't feel like talking to her. but my question was could i have made a psychic connection? and if so could it have drained me. because i just don't feel like talking to any one really.. I just don't feel like making the attempt... when usually i am alot more social. Is there a way to stop this from happening again?

Butterfly	14 Mar 2002
This is fairly normal. Could be a few things really. Often, when I talk to someone I can get paranoid and feel like something is wrong. This makes me go all quiet and introspective, trying to think about what I could of done. It's bad for my self esteem and gives me a bit of a negative spin on talking to other people. It really drains your energy and makes you want to keep to yourself for a while.I would bet that there is not one person out there who hasn't felt this at some time. It's all fairly normal and really common. If it's the case you need to recognise that it wasn't necessarily about you- maybe the other person was feeling down, had problems to think about, was distracted etc. It's much easier to jump to solutions like someone draining energy, it's more exciting and much more comfortable for the ego. I'm not saying this is the case with you, just consider the more mundane reasons before you decide it was a case of energy drain. Now, if it was energy drain, there is a lot you can do, both as protection and cure. Imagine a white light around you, protecting you. or Visualise a cord between you and the other person and cut it, Imagine a three layered egg of different colours surrounding you (white, teal, violet). "Paint" your third eye with a cross of flower essences (particularly recommend fringed violet). These will all work effectively. Sometimes I think with spiritual matters it will all happen more smoothly if you just relax and ease into it. It will happen when you are ready to handle it, and the unnecessary stress of really pushing it can just chase it away- just a thought. Wishing you peace and serenity, Butterfly

Mateo06	15 Mar 2002
thanks alot

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