If a psychic medium said "You can ask 3 questions" what would they be?

Thread originally posted on the Aeclectic Tarot Forum on 14 Mar 2002, and now archived in the Forum Library.

Summerdream	14 Mar 2002
Hi! One of my friends told me about a local psychic channeler who books private parties. You can only ask 3 question to your spirit guide, passed away loved one, etc. I was thinking If I go to one of these parties what questions would I ask. I'd want to make it something important. What would you ask if you ask 3 questions?

funkpuss	14 Mar 2002
Hmmmm 1. I would ask about my love life. 2. Work 3. Why do I always seem to have bad luck when I think positive??? Over the last 5-6 nothing has worked out for me at all I even when too see top Mediums that told me that told me things that was spot on and even predicted things that came true, but they all had bad endings. I've never done anything to hurt anyone nor am I stupid, I never seem to be happy or have anyone around me that I can trust. There always seems to be a catch. Funkpuss

Malachite	14 Mar 2002
I wouln't bother asking about love...I can ruin that one well enough myself without finding out in advance ;-) I'm really not sure what I'd ask... btw, funkpuss....thinking positive is one thing, but BELIEVING positive really works...its kind of a leap of faith thing, I think, only instead of trusting someone else, trust yourself...you have to run your life, so you have trust yourself to make a damn fine job of it... Ignore bad stuff...unless its a legally binding debt...thinking about bad brings bad about... really don;t mean to sound patronising, but I REALLY don;t like seeing people unhappy, when I know that every human ever born has the capability to control their own destiny...sorry if i do sound patronising...

Emily	14 Mar 2002
1 I would ask if I'd lived before, 2 If my loved one's, including pets would be waiting for me when its my time 3 and I would also ask if I have a guardian angel/spirit guide and if not who is the one who looks out for me.

nexyjo	14 Mar 2002
what's a psychic medium?

Malachite	15 Mar 2002
Emily:... I like your choices...I think I;d ask the first two, as well.... I've already answered the third one for myself, so i'd have one spare.. Kinda important about the loved ones waiting one..

Liliana	15 Mar 2002
Not going to helpyou much, but Id ask exactly how my father died. He was hit by a train, but no one knows why he was on the tracks. If Ihad that answered someone else could have my other two, tho I may ask how I can improve myself and my relationship

funkpuss	15 Mar 2002
Your totally right Malachite! No offence taken, I have a sitting booked for next month and after that no more readings for me. I am my future, what ever I decide to do I have free will. But I will always be intrested in the subject but not to put my life of hold because of what mediums say. I've had very good evidence from my mother who passed on and also other friends. I accepted my mothers death and that's not the reason why I'm a bit fed up it's just most Mediums only confirm things that you already know but people have got to be sooooo careful as there are so many cowboys out here. My main problem was I was having sittings all the time not to contact my mother but none of my friends understand al this and they think that it's just for sad people who hang on to the past.It's my No.1 hobby and I'm in the middle of designing my own cards. Even thought tarot has nothing to do with mediumship but that's how I got into it. But I'm thinking positive and that a good thing! funkpuss

funkpuss	15 Mar 2002
I'm starting to BELIEVING positive things too!!

Rhiannon	15 Mar 2002
I would ask: What lessons from a past life do I still need to learn in this one to move to the next plane? What is my biggest block to learning those lessons? How can I help others (my family and friends) learn the lessons they need to learn and move forward as well? Wow, that was really deep.... I need to lighten up today! LOL :P Rhiannon :)

truthsayer	15 Mar 2002
1. i'd want to know if my marriage is as solid as it appears to be. 2. what unfinished business do i have left w/ my parents. 3. am i on the right and best path for growth of my soul in this life. if i had a 4th, i'd want to know if my grandmother's death from diabetes was actually linked to her not taking care of herself and was actually suicide. this has been suggested to me and even though she been dead nearly 30 years, i want to know the truth. i don't know if it will help anything to know. i'll feel bad if it was suicide and better if it was the disease process and beyond human control.

Liliana	15 Mar 2002
my dads been dead 7 years, and i still want to know why he was on those tracks, i always will, or at least why he didnt hear the train coming, he was only 34

funkpuss	16 Mar 2002
To answer Nexyjo question A Mediums job is to try and provide evidence of servival after death and not to predict the future, even though most mediums do tel you things about the future. Also you can guarantee that the medium will get someone from spirit that you know as it could be a guid or someome who dead before you was born but knows a family member. Also it's difficult to get specific questions answered even though I have. You just have to shop around for a good medium. Funkpuss

blumoon	16 Mar 2002
1. about my grandfather 2. which relative moved my coffee cup on my 23rd birthday 3. am i heading the right way in life so far (can mediums answer a question like this?)

truthsayer	16 Mar 2002
liliana, i'm sorry for the loss of your father. i hope that one day you find out the answers you so desparately need to know. closure is such an important thing to experience.(((((((((((((((((liliana))))))))))))))))))))))))

Pollux	16 Mar 2002
1) If my love life will be happy - and steady, above all (one for liFE! :D); 2) If I will manage to succed professionally; 3) If I will manage to die happy, with no regrets and all.

jade	16 Mar 2002
Quote: Originally posted by Emily 1 I would ask if I'd lived before, 2 If my loved one's, including pets would be waiting for me when its my time 3 and I would also ask if I have a guardian angel/spirit guide and if not who is the one who looks out for me. i can answer all of those for you. yes yes and yes yes you have lived before because it is not the path of a 'first timer' to delve into spiritual matters (based on my experience) yes your pets will be waiting for you, in the sense that, you are no longer in the physical and if they aren't either......your souls could meet again. and yes. we ALL have guardian angels, whether we believe in them or not. they stay with us through out our lives.......the only spiritual being that does. guides change as our needs change but our guardian angel is there till death. and beyond. often, our guardian angel has already shared a life with us and has a connection to us. :) just my opinions, love jade

jade	16 Mar 2002
Quote: Originally posted by truthsayer 1. i'd want to know if my marriage is as solid as it appears to be. what would you do with that answer, (if it was negative) if you got it? would you leave, would you work harder........would you feel that it was useless and give up...... i don't ask questions that i don't really want to hear the answer for. often my clients will come to me and their reading will say that their relationship is strong and good. then they come back a year later in the middle of a divorce......they ask me why i gave them that reading only a year before........i tell them, cause that's obviously what they needed to hear, for their greatest good at that time. i completely believe that. AND that it takes two to make a relationship and perhaps they wanted to but something changed for their spouse. what works for us now,....may not work later. in light, jade ps i'm very curious about all of your (collective your as in the forum members) questions on this thread.

jade	16 Mar 2002
personally i wouldn't have any questions for the medium. i enjoy living in the moment, this moment, and not in tomorrow. in light, jade :)

Emily	17 Mar 2002
Hi Jade, Thanks for your response :) - I sort of know I've been here before. When I was young, too young to realise, I used to have dreams of a life that wasn't mine. I had an imaginary friend who was very real to me but she left when I was around 5. Too often I was told that I had 'an old head on young shoulders' lol Also now there is someone who is 'around' me. Little things like not being able to find door keys then they're just there, lost objects turning up out of the blue usually in the place they should have been in the first place lol One of these days I'm going to go for a 'past life regression (?)' just to settle my mind :)

Kiama	17 Mar 2002
I'd probably ask what my true strengths are, what my true weaknesses are, and what I need to remember.... Kiama

truthsayer	17 Mar 2002
jade, i'd want to know b/c i'd want to work harder and to communicate my concerns w/ him. i'm feeling extra sensitive about this b/c since i've been in nursing school i've seen marriages nose dive right and left and this is only the first year!! i feel secure but i also don't want to take him for granted b/c i am so involved in my studies. he often comes second these days. if he wasn't communicating something to me i want to know now while i still have some power to make things better. i need his emotional support to survive this program but i would quit if i thought it was destroying our relationship. i don't have to become a nurse to be employed. it's something optional i've chosen to do. our relationship is first. i've told him this many times but i know sometimes it isn't enough. everyone has different ways of feeling loved. he likes me to do things for him like keeping the house clean or cooking meals. when we first met i didn't understand this. i thought he was being chauvinistic but he's not. this is how love was demonstrated in his family of origin. i like to be listened to and emotionally supported to feel loved by him. he does a good job;however, if he isn't feeling loved by me b/c i'm not paying attention to his love needs then it's harder for him to give due to his love deficit. the old "you can't get anything out of an empty pitcher" scenario". does that make any sense? i learned this and highly recommend "the five love languages" by gary chapman. it's really helped us understand each other a lot better.

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