Le Fanu
I would suspect that we all feel no deck, no image, truly fits us. You can attribute it to your own gender that you can't find yourself in the imagery but I (personally) honestly don't feel that males in tarot-land are male by my own identity or feeling of it. I've seen similar threads with people recommending male tarots, none of which reflect me. I think it's just symptomatic of our times, the complexity of identity, the multiplicity of identity that nothing really reflects us. I've given up expecting tarot to reflect me.As I hunt through decks for women I can actually relate to, I'm find that I'm really very short of role models.
It's just this sort of everyman/woman otherland