Molly
This spread assumes there are two people involved who are in a relationship. It is laid out in columns basically.
..............OTHER................BOTH...........YOU/QUERANT
.........................................13....................................
............3..................................................................8
..........................5..............................10...................
.............2..........................11...................................7
...........................4..............................9.....................
............1..................................................................6
.........................................12.....................................
Cards 1 and 6: FOUNDATION. They represent the foundation of this relationship, personal views, patterns of relating to one another thus far, etc.
Cards 2 and 7: "PAST" RELATIONS. This card is specifically for past relationships of importance i.e. past significant other, ex-spouse, fiancee. If there is no significant other, it will also shed light on issues from childhood, specifically parent-child relating patterns. (That is why past is in quotes...) This is to shed light on what each person carries with them, whether conscious or not.
Cards 3 and 8: OTHER. This is an important card. It reveals what else is going on in your life that is an influence on the behavior within the relationship: work/career influence, private thought-life, struggles.
Cards 4 and 9: LETTING GO. This is what each person needs to leave behind (card 4 is for other and card 9 is for you). This could be habits, attitudes, viewpoints...
Cards 5 and 10: EMBRACING. This is what each needs to embrace, accept, take, move towards...
Card 11. MEETING IN THE MIDDLE. This one card represents what both parties need to "meet in the middle"...
Card 12. HOPE AND FEAR. Mutual hope and/or fear.
Card 13. POTENTIAL OUTCOME. I prefer to turn cards over until a major arcana appears. The unused cards can be looked at for further clarification, or not.
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I really hope that people enjoy this! It is one of the first spreads I have designed. Let me know what you think!
..............OTHER................BOTH...........YOU/QUERANT
.........................................13....................................
............3..................................................................8
..........................5..............................10...................
.............2..........................11...................................7
...........................4..............................9.....................
............1..................................................................6
.........................................12.....................................
Cards 1 and 6: FOUNDATION. They represent the foundation of this relationship, personal views, patterns of relating to one another thus far, etc.
Cards 2 and 7: "PAST" RELATIONS. This card is specifically for past relationships of importance i.e. past significant other, ex-spouse, fiancee. If there is no significant other, it will also shed light on issues from childhood, specifically parent-child relating patterns. (That is why past is in quotes...) This is to shed light on what each person carries with them, whether conscious or not.
Cards 3 and 8: OTHER. This is an important card. It reveals what else is going on in your life that is an influence on the behavior within the relationship: work/career influence, private thought-life, struggles.
Cards 4 and 9: LETTING GO. This is what each person needs to leave behind (card 4 is for other and card 9 is for you). This could be habits, attitudes, viewpoints...
Cards 5 and 10: EMBRACING. This is what each needs to embrace, accept, take, move towards...
Card 11. MEETING IN THE MIDDLE. This one card represents what both parties need to "meet in the middle"...
Card 12. HOPE AND FEAR. Mutual hope and/or fear.
Card 13. POTENTIAL OUTCOME. I prefer to turn cards over until a major arcana appears. The unused cards can be looked at for further clarification, or not.
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I really hope that people enjoy this! It is one of the first spreads I have designed. Let me know what you think!