I have to agree with Lillie. I always take what others say with a grain of salt. I "see" court cards the way
I see them. If someone else's interps fit mine, well, fine. If not, well, fine. It doesn't matter to me.
But when you are beginning it is important to take others' views into consideration and then test it to see if it works for
you.
I think you will rarely find the "my way or the highway" mentality here.
KK