Niti
Hey all,
I was just wondering how much other people let the cards influence their lives?
I know it is often said that we are, when it comes down to it, in control of our own destinies. Whatever the cards say can change if you change your approach. Hypothetically.
But what about when it comes to things like relationships and jobs, where you are only partially in control, or not at all? What about when it is all cardly-hearsay? You know those readings where you might suspect your partner is cheating on you, and the cards confirm it, or where you find out someone who has been befriending you has ulterior motives? Or if the cards tell you that you'd be happier working at one place instead of another? Or when the cards tell you without much room for doubt, "don't go on that vacation, you'll regret it!"
How do you react? Would you cut off a friendship or relationship because of tarot cards? Would you change vacation plans, or question people with no other basis of proof?
In many spreads designed to give advice, so much of it strikes a chord of truth (even the advice is usually something I already know) that it's only natural to try and follow. But when it comes to spreads like these - especially the kinds that concern other people - how much do you trust it, and where do you go from there?
I was just wondering how much other people let the cards influence their lives?
I know it is often said that we are, when it comes down to it, in control of our own destinies. Whatever the cards say can change if you change your approach. Hypothetically.
But what about when it comes to things like relationships and jobs, where you are only partially in control, or not at all? What about when it is all cardly-hearsay? You know those readings where you might suspect your partner is cheating on you, and the cards confirm it, or where you find out someone who has been befriending you has ulterior motives? Or if the cards tell you that you'd be happier working at one place instead of another? Or when the cards tell you without much room for doubt, "don't go on that vacation, you'll regret it!"
How do you react? Would you cut off a friendship or relationship because of tarot cards? Would you change vacation plans, or question people with no other basis of proof?
In many spreads designed to give advice, so much of it strikes a chord of truth (even the advice is usually something I already know) that it's only natural to try and follow. But when it comes to spreads like these - especially the kinds that concern other people - how much do you trust it, and where do you go from there?