can anyone help?

[sedgeez]

Hi guys, just wondering if anyone could help with a spread, i have looked but couldnt find one that suits my needs but i may have over looked it, and i have never made my own spread before.

basically i need a spread to see what someones intentions are in a relationship. i have my feelings they are selfish intentions (particularly about money), and would like to see what the cards can tell me.

does anyone know of a good spread that could work?

Thanks

[Thomas]

I typically like to use a three-card spread like this one:

Mind
Body
Spirit

I find this simple spread allows me to answer a lot of open questions in many ways. Not necessary the future spread but I often able to see where the path could head to by knowing the thoughts and actions of the querent.

With this spread, I hope you can see their intention, how they actually act upon it, as well as how they feel about the action and/or intention as well.

Good luck!

[sedgeez]

Originally Posted by Thomas

I typically like to use a three-card spread like this one:

Mind
Body
Spirit

I find this simple spread allows me to answer a lot of open questions in many ways. Not necessary the future spread but I often able to see where the path could head to by knowing the thoughts and actions of the querent.

With this spread, I hope you can see their intention, how they actually act upon it, as well as how they feel about the action and/or intention as well.

Good luck!

thank you for your reply!

i didnt even think about using that one.
ill give it a go.

thanks

[l6mmeleht]

Spread I use tends to be this:

P1 - Relationship - P2
[]......[].....[] Past / Root of the problem
[]......[].....[] Present / Heart of the problem
[]......[].....[] Future / Outcome, how it is taken by others

This will give me the overall situation on both persons in relationship and what is going on right now. The past, present and future can be also the root of the problem, the heart of the problem and how it looks outside to others. It depends what the querant wants exactly. The middle cards show where and how the two personalities clash in the situation.

Though I think it is pretty basic, I don't remember looking it up from anywhere. It's just something that came when it was needed.

[sedgeez]

Originally Posted by l6mmeleht

Spread I use tends to be this:

P1 - Relationship - P2
[]......[].....[] Past / Root of the problem
[]......[].....[] Present / Heart of the problem
[]......[].....[] Future / Outcome, how it is taken by others

This will give me the overall situation on both persons in relationship and what is going on right now. The past, present and future can be also the root of the problem, the heart of the problem and how it looks outside to others. It depends what the querant wants exactly. The middle cards show where and how the two personalities clash in the situation.

Though I think it is pretty basic, I don't remember looking it up from anywhere. It's just something that came when it was needed.

thank you!!

[Dolphin_Dreamer]

Not sure if this might help http://www.tarotforum.net/showthread.php?t=101685 but I often use it and not just for new aquaintances but just to see reactions sometimes...

This also is a good one too.. http://www.tarotforum.net/showthread.php?t=100320
Things Aren't Always What They Seem

good luck

[sedgeez]

Originally Posted by Dolphin_Dreamer

Not sure if this might help http://www.tarotforum.net/showthread.php?t=101685 but I often use it and not just for new aquaintances but just to see reactions sometimes...

This also is a good one too.. http://www.tarotforum.net/showthread.php?t=100320
Things Aren't Always What They Seem

good luck

ill have a look at them now,

thank you

[Trogon]

Originally Posted by sedgeez

Hi guys, just wondering if anyone could help with a spread, i have looked but couldnt find one that suits my needs but i may have over looked it, and i have never made my own spread before.

basically i need a spread to see what someones intentions are in a relationship. i have my feelings they are selfish intentions (particularly about money), and would like to see what the cards can tell me.

does anyone know of a good spread that could work?

Thanks

Hi Sedgeez. I have a "New Friend" spread. I think I came up with it around 2003 or '04 - I can't really remember now. Came up with it when a friend asked about a guy who she had met who seemed to be wanting to get serious. Anyway, it's a simple 5-card linear spread. One would use it when one is either wondering about someone who is new in their life or who appears to be wanting to change the relationship;

1......2......3......4......5

1 - The person's current situation (what the querent should/needs to know)

2 - The person's motivation / what they want

3 - How they feel about the querent

4 - Querent's feelings

5 - Outcome / Advice (ie, where is this going)

[sedgeez]

Originally Posted by Trogon

Hi Sedgeez. I have a "New Friend" spread. I think I came up with it around 2003 or '04 - I can't really remember now. Came up with it when a friend asked about a guy who she had met who seemed to be wanting to get serious. Anyway, it's a simple 5-card linear spread. One would use it when one is either wondering about someone who is new in their life or who appears to be wanting to change the relationship;

1......2......3......4......5

1 - The person's current situation (what the querent should/needs to know)

2 - The person's motivation / what they want

3 - How they feel about the querent

4 - Querent's feelings

5 - Outcome / Advice (ie, where is this going)

thank you for this spread it looks really good, ill give it a try.

thank you