Dream with Ex in it

**tarotbear** · 05-10-2012

In this dream - which was the last dream before waking - My (now Ex) husband and I were in a city such as Philadelphia, not NYC or Providence, RI and we walked into a gay bath house. He walked in and was waited on and got into the place, but I got stuck at the front desk - 'no spaces.' In the dream this waiting lasted an hour; in the meantime other young gay men seemed to be able to enter without any problem, but I had to wait, wait, wait and my husband was already inside. I finally got tired of waiting and tried to call his cell phone, but since we were in a building and in a strange calling area I could not get through. Finally after an hour of waiting I decided this was ridiculous - that I should file a discrimination complaint - I decided to leave and tried calling my Ex outside on the street. The number rang and he answered and I could hear his voice and we talked. I told him I was now outside the building, never got in, and was not going to bother even trying to get in. I was very unhappy because it was a big waste of time to get nothing out of it.

Then I woke up.

**Milfoil** · 07-10-2012

Perhaps the dream suggests how you are coming to terms with the relationship. How he seems to have got everything, lots of people around him, lots of attention yet you are on the outside, unable to 'be there' with him (which could suggest understanding him or knowing him fully) nobody listening and there are still bruising questions about your self worth. The long time trying to get in also suggests the patient (wasted??) time trying to sort out the differences between you yet in the end, the only way to communicate was via a third party (phone) and the final ultimatum is one of separation.

From a complete outsiders point of view, it seems like a 'sorting it out in my mind' kind of dream where your sub conscious is putting all the pieces into place so that the whole experience can be understood on every level.

Does that make sense?

**tarotbear** · 07-10-2012

In my mind, I am trying to decide it if refers directly to the divorce, or the situations preceding it .... not that it matters now.

tarotbear One of the original 100 members Join Date: 05 Aug 2001 Location: The Naugatuck Valley, CT Posts: 7,224	Dream with Ex in it In this dream - which was the last dream before waking - My (now Ex) husband and I were in a city such as Philadelphia, not NYC or Providence, RI and we walked into a gay bath house. He walked in and was waited on and got into the place, but I got stuck at the front desk - 'no spaces.' In the dream this waiting lasted an hour; in the meantime other young gay men seemed to be able to enter without any problem, but I had to wait, wait, wait and my husband was already inside. I finally got tired of waiting and tried to call his cell phone, but since we were in a building and in a strange calling area I could not get through. Finally after an hour of waiting I decided this was ridiculous - that I should file a discrimination complaint - I decided to leave and tried calling my Ex outside on the street. The number rang and he answered and I could hear his voice and we talked. I told him I was now outside the building, never got in, and was not going to bother even trying to get in. I was very unhappy because it was a big waste of time to get nothing out of it. Then I woke up. __________________ I don't lead the parade - I AM THE PARADE! This is not rocket surgery, ya know! Bury the past - and move on to a new tomorrow.

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Milfoil Bending Clouds Join Date: 01 Mar 2005 Location: In the Starlight Posts: 13,731	Perhaps the dream suggests how you are coming to terms with the relationship. How he seems to have got everything, lots of people around him, lots of attention yet you are on the outside, unable to 'be there' with him (which could suggest understanding him or knowing him fully) nobody listening and there are still bruising questions about your self worth. The long time trying to get in also suggests the patient (wasted??) time trying to sort out the differences between you yet in the end, the only way to communicate was via a third party (phone) and the final ultimatum is one of separation. From a complete outsiders point of view, it seems like a 'sorting it out in my mind' kind of dream where your sub conscious is putting all the pieces into place so that the whole experience can be understood on every level. Does that make sense? Last edited by Milfoil; 07-10-2012 at 19:40.

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tarotbear One of the original 100 members Join Date: 05 Aug 2001 Location: The Naugatuck Valley, CT Posts: 7,224	In my mind, I am trying to decide it if refers directly to the divorce, or the situations preceding it .... not that it matters now. __________________ I don't lead the parade - I AM THE PARADE! This is not rocket surgery, ya know! Bury the past - and move on to a new tomorrow.

07-10-2012	Ask a Professional Tarot Reader Top #3

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