Any ideas on a 'Can we be friends?' spread?

[MissB23]

Pretty self explanatory.

Just wondering if anyone has any good spreads I could use or know of any. I want to find out if it would be possible to be friends with my ex, if it would be a good idea or not and how it'd play out (definitely no getting back together though). I'd like to know of we could help each other platonically and If itd work.

Thanks!

[Yineth]

I believe there are some friendship related spreads you could find through the index. If you wanted to make your own spread though, I think you could focus on some of the questions you've already mentioned.

Would it be possible to be friends with my ex?
How can my ex and I help each other platonically?

So on and so forth. I think you could compose a 3-5 card spread from them really. Good luck

[oddsoul]

Kinda just came up with this one. I thought about what I might want to know, and what kind of picture I would want to paint of the situation to help me understand it. I wanted to make it kind of tree-shaped because of the shared roots.

****6****
**4***5**
1***3***2

1- How your past or thoughts or feelings affect the situation
2- How your ex's past/thoughts/feelings affect the situation
3- The impact your shared history has on the situation
4- What aspect(s) you might bring to the friendship
5- What aspect(s) your ex might bring to the friendship
6- Possible outcome / your dynamic together in regards to a friendship

This could probably be adapted into some kind of "possible relationship" spread too!

Good luck!

[MissB23]

Thank you both!!

Oddsoul, I might work with the one! (:
We'll see how it goes.