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Citizen
Join Date: 08 Sep 2004
Location: Jersey City, NJ, United States
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Celtic Heart spread by Valerie Sim-Behi
In my initial tarot explorations on the Net, I found the American Tarot Association's wonderful site and enjoyed perusing it, particularly the archives of their newsletter, Tarot Reflections. During my explorations, I came across this wonderful relationship spread by Valerie Sim-Behi. I find that it's a very in-depth and insightful spread, which gives more insights because it's very astute as to what the nature of a relationship really is. Valerie writes: Though I am not an expert on relationships, I firmly believe that the best relationships are those in which he, she, and the relationship itself all grow, both individually and in tandem. I consider the relationship itself to be an entity and believe that forgetting that can be a huge mistake. She needs to grow into herself, he needs to become the man he was meant to be, and together, if they are mutually dedicated to the union and are willing to work on it, the relationship should mature and blossom. Well, thats my theory <g> and the premise upon which this spread was based. (The choice of pronouns used herein is conventional, but by no means judgmental, and this spread works equally well for he/he and she/she relationships.) I find this a very insightful way to examine a relationship. It's not just a matter of who two people are on their own, but the "gifts" they give each other, the aspects of the other each person brings out, the challenges they give each other, and importantly, it's also about the entity the relationship itself becomes. What characterizes the relationship? What is it based on? And so on. Sorry if someone's already posted a link to this spread before, I did a search and didn't find a thread where it was mentioned, and I thought it was too good not to share. |
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Citizen
Join Date: 13 Aug 2002
Location: Perched with ravens, New Mexico
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The spread, as copied from the web link : Quote:
Thanks for your contribution, noby!
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Domestic Tarotist
Join Date: 22 Nov 2003
Location: the Pacific Far East United State of Alaska
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I tried out this spread this morning and thought it gave me insights into some things I had lost sight of. I like it. __________________ If you can't be a good example - - then you will just have to be a horrible warning |
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Citizen
Join Date: 04 Apr 2005
Location: Ohio, US
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This spread looks like it will be a very good spread and i am very interested in trying it!!! I will tell you how i think it turned out after i finish it. |
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Resident
Join Date: 02 Dec 2005
Location: Slovakia
Posts: 84
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I found that wonderful spread a few days ago and now I have a question about position 11. What does 'snapshot of the infant relationship' actually mean? I am Russian, so I'm not sure that I did understood it quite well. __________________ We must always tell what we see. Above all, and this is more difficult, we must always see what we see. (Charles Peguy) Last edited by amaretta; 24-04-2006 at 02:38. |
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Citizen
Join Date: 18 Apr 2006
Location: Netherlands
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Probably something like how it is right now or at which point it is.
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Citizen
Join Date: 11 Oct 2006
Location: Calgary, Alberta, Canada
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I just married last year. I wasn't brave enough to do a reading for my relationship. But I am going to try this one tonight. This is not a "Yes, he loves me" or "No, we have no future" spread, it will help me to understand my relationship with my husband and provide me suggestion to improve our current relationship. I am not scared of knowing there's something I can do to make the relationship better
__________________ Life is a learning journey. |
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Resident
Join Date: 20 Jan 2007
Location: United States
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I stumbled on this one a little while ago and have used it a few times. Highly recommended! |
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Citizen
Join Date: 23 Apr 2007
Location: Arizona, USA
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I am learning Turkish currently so I understand how the lingo of American English and European English is rather different from each other, as well as lingo in other cultures. That is probably one of the hardest things to become accustomed to.. you can say something in english and translate it to turkish, (or any other language for that matter) and they could have no clue as to what you are trying to say.. lol.. Just my 2 cents (ha! another example.. I have seen that posted here as 2 p) currency exchange.. lol. yeah im a dork! lol __________________ "Trauma and Tragedy. These often mark the beginning of a soul's ability to mature. Lessons learned by the soul are sometimes quickly forgotten by our earthly minds, thus hardship is required to relearn the lesson." Roewyn <3 |
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Join Date: 02 Dec 2005
Location: Slovakia
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![]() Thank you very much, Roewyn!!!
__________________ We must always tell what we see. Above all, and this is more difficult, we must always see what we see. (Charles Peguy) |
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