There are some things that trouble me too. I’m a strong believer in the idea that you can usually change the outcomes of readings and that your choices matter in whether they come true or not.
Your chances of finding love in 2015 can be really high, but you probably also need to do things like going out and mingling with people with similar interests and being emotionally available. Even if you find love, it doesn’t mean you’ll keep it if you can’t address potential obstacles, and it doesn’t mean it’ll be a healthy relationship if you or the other person interact in a way that’s very damaging.
Sometimes people do have a stroke of luck when they unexpectedly fall in love with the Right Person or are offered their dream job when they least expect it. However, that’s not really the norm, just like people who find winning lottery tickets in the ground are not the norm, and if you want to have a chance to win the lottery you should buy a ticket.
I know that sometimes it’s so easy to look at a very happy person and assume that they were just lucky and that it all fell in their laps. If you think rationally, though, it’s much more likely that they’ve invested a lot of work and time into building their relationships.
Another thing that bothers me is when people do readings that are extremely biased and ask “is this person I saw once The One?”. What kind of answer can they expect to get from that that won’t make them feel worse? How are we supposed to interpret that when we don’t know if being honest is going to hurt them more?
I also feel worried when people read about the feelings of another person for them, or about the relationship that someone else has with another person. That’s very intrusive, and quite frankly, it’s not going to do you any good to know. If you find out that the other person likes you back, what does it matter if you don’t go ahead and make a move? If you find out they’re happy with the relationship they have, what can you do? Wouldn’t it be better to ask what you can do to move on from them or something? If you don’t expect to find love soon, won’t you be at least a little bit happier if until that happens you can also be happy with yourself and make the most of that time?
It’s fine to need reassurance and to want updates. I think that’s a normal human thing. However, it’s also wise to know your limits and to know where to seek out help. The Tarot is not a magical “good luck” ticket that will make you dreams come true just because you’ve pulled a good card and it’s not a replacement for a therapist.
In short, I agree what you’ve said here. Sometimes I see people post here and I worry about them, and wish I could advise them to stop asking the same questions and instead address why they’re asking those questions over and over, or to turn to a person they can talk to instead of a deck of cards (as much as I love the Tarot, it's not a replacement for your best friend, a lawyer, or a doctor).