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Yeah, but they're mixing their apples and oranges, too - or throwing the baby out with the bath water.ravenest said:Some of you might think I'm mixing apples and oranges, mixing up forget and forgive, yet in my experience, a lot of the time, those that 'forgive', 'forget' and round and round they go on the wheel having the same shit thing happen to them (offen by the same person) over and over again.
You can forgive and forget, in which case no one learns the lessons.
You can forgive but not forget, in which case you're calmer in yourself and also wiser.
You can neither forgive nor forget, in which case you're going to be bitter and suspicious (suspicion being the sour spinster sister of wisdom).
Or, if you're really dumb, you can forget but not forgive, in which case you're going to be perpetually unhappy and never learn why or not to get yoruself in the same place again.
\m/ Kat