Melisandre
i assume that Goldenwolf is talking about your aura...
your aura could be huge, that maybe one of the issues that your having and this is alerting you to it. everyones aura's are different sizes, you can get someone to look at see how big it is , or you can ask the universe and see if a number pops in your head, or you can try and pull it in until it feels comfortable
Interesting! Thank you, 214. I actually can see my own aura, but it seems that I'm only able to see a fraction of it (or of anyone else's for that matter). I just see the layer closest to the body, and so based on that I'd say no more than 6 inches. I may have to ask someone else who is better at that than I am.