BookLady
I did two larger and separate readings about what someone wants from two different relationships (R-W, no reversals). I realize context plays a role, but I'm trying to sort of step back and take a broader look at each relationship, which have both had their share of stumbling blocks lately. Any thoughts are appreciated!
1. What do they want from relationship A? Death.
Ack! Based just on this, my first thought would be that they want it to be over! But this doesn't match their actions toward the person/relationship, so the follow-up was, what do they want the death/end of? Answer: Not this-> page of pentacles, but this-> 9 swords. So perhaps they don't want to end the relationship, merely their anxiety regarding it? (and page of pentacles = planning for a more positive future? not sure...) Or is most likely that they really just want it to end because it's too stressful?
2. What do they want from relationship B? 5 cups.
Clarifiers: not this-> 3 cups, but this-> 5 swords
My first thought was that they want to stop feeling sad/regretful and defeated about the relationship (because who would want to feel that??). But the 3 of cups throws a wrench in it; makes me wonder if they actually want to wallow, perhaps admit the relationship is a losing battle rather than pretend all is well? Or want to accept all the blame?
1. What do they want from relationship A? Death.
Ack! Based just on this, my first thought would be that they want it to be over! But this doesn't match their actions toward the person/relationship, so the follow-up was, what do they want the death/end of? Answer: Not this-> page of pentacles, but this-> 9 swords. So perhaps they don't want to end the relationship, merely their anxiety regarding it? (and page of pentacles = planning for a more positive future? not sure...) Or is most likely that they really just want it to end because it's too stressful?
2. What do they want from relationship B? 5 cups.
Clarifiers: not this-> 3 cups, but this-> 5 swords
My first thought was that they want to stop feeling sad/regretful and defeated about the relationship (because who would want to feel that??). But the 3 of cups throws a wrench in it; makes me wonder if they actually want to wallow, perhaps admit the relationship is a losing battle rather than pretend all is well? Or want to accept all the blame?