Good discussion thread, as I have also been reading with some curiosity at some of the questions being asked upon my recent return to AT.
I am personally not a fan of 3rd party readings, particularly the "how does x person feel about me", or "what does x person think about me" - and have given this some thought the last day or so, as to why that is ...
A small part of this is perhaps a privacy issue for 3rd parties - but it is really more about that I feel asking these types of questions - the querent (or yourself) are giving away some of your "power" in a situation to focus on what a 3rd party thinks or feels - and not focussing on what a querent (or yourself) thinks or feels - and potentially needs to be aware of in regards to a situation, circumstance or events (past, present or future).
As I have found that dealing with "situations" in life is rarely just about how one person feels or thinks (professionally or personally) - it is far more complex than that. It is also hard enough to understand how or why yourself may think or feel about things at any given moment in time, let alone how a 3rd party is without taking into consideration all other aspects of a situation - internally and externally.
So changing the focus of questions to be more about how, why, what does the querent (or yourself) need to know, be aware of, consider etc about a situation, (retrospective or predictive) - I have found to be more effective and useful for a querent to think about or make decisions in our constant changing landscape of life.
I guess this is where everyone's individual style or reading comes into play - and that is often based on their own paradigms or life experiences - and honestly may be it is just an age thing as well (for me) ! lol - as the older I get the more I realise and am less concerned about what other people think or feel about me - and it is more about how the querent (or myself) feel or think about life's challenges and changes ... and how best they may navigate these.
cheers
CF