I know this might stir some emotions, but I am curious what all of you think about this topic.
I have been learning and reading for a couple of years and only my husband and my mother know. Oh, and my hair stylist.
My husband's family is Catholic and can be judgemental (one has nothing to do with the other) and he doesn't want them to know (and I agree) because they will say it's satan's work and they will judge me. Especially because I am not religious at all, nor is my husband, but they don't believe he means it. As far as my family, I don't have much, so N/A. I haven't told my friends so it doesn't ever get back to his family. I can't take the chance. It sucks that I can't share.
Questions:
How have any you handled this if it came up?
Do any of you hide the fact that you read Tarot cards?
Has your reading Tarot caused any problems with friends/family members?
I'd love to hear other stories. I can't take advice because I really cannot tell them. I have known them for 20 years and I know I can't, so thanks anyway in advance. Freyja
There are a lot of different issues you mentioned here.
To start with, it is normal that people are ignorant of and misinformed on the topic of Tarot. For those who have no actual experience with this thing called Tarot, it is normal that all they know is what they hear from what they consider reliable sources. It is normal that they believe this as they know nothing else.
To start with the media usually, from what i have seen, shows it in inaccurate ways. Most times you see about it in books of movies it is an eery scary thing. Death card comes up, cure the scary music, the someone dies on cue...Books tend to be just as bad. They shows Tarot as something to avoid and scary.
And yep, the church presents it as the devil's work. And people believe their church. Tarot is a thing that allows you to form your own spiritual views and even (some believe, myself included) talk to God or the angels directly without the intervention of the church< if everyone could just up and do that there would be a lot less use for organized religion so you can expect they would not be for something that has that effect.
Next, your question was about how to handle people who are ignorant on Tarot. With respect as I handle anyone. With the understanding that if I myself had no other access to information on Tarot than they do I would likely believe the same thing they do. And with compassion and the understanding that it is not my right of business to try to change someone's lifeview or beliefs any more than I give someone else the right to try to change mine, Unless someone asks me to help change them, then I do not have the right to do so. Just as I would not like someone telling me I must change whether i want to or not.
I DO do my part to inform and to get the truth on what Tarot is out into the world. To hopefully counteract all the misinformation with the truth. Every month I write a section in my newsletter called "Tarot Demystified" in which I try to talk about common misconceptions and what the truth (as I see it) actually. I do hope this helps in some way. But what people do with this, or do not do, is up to them.
But yes, there are a lot of people who are anti-Tarot out there. SO I do not openly blurt out that I am a Tarot reader as soon as I meet someone. If I tell co-workers, it is only after I know them a bit and am sure they like and accept me for who I am and that they do not seem to be judgmental people.
I had a lot of trouble with my mother and bf when I started reading Tarot. BOTH STRONGLY believed that you had to be a total and complete idiot to believe that that craup could ever work. Their words not mine obviously. Both were FURIOUS with me and very cruel and insulting about it. They did not want to be associated with anyone idiotic enough to believe in that. I came close to losing my bf over it. Although a mother is always a mother.
They could not get me to stop. Because once I was into it I knew it was Truth. And both were furious. Eventually they learnt to not discuss it with me. My bf came around when he saw me start to make money with it. That felt like a good thing to him then (sigh)
Decades later the stress with them over that is over, but it was pretty hard at the time.
I have never had anyone call it Satan's work, I guess I can say I don't knoW anyone who actually believes in Satan. But I got a lot of anger that i was so stupid It was beyond their understanding that anyone in their right mind could believe in such nonsense. Just furious.
I just got past it by sticking to my guns. I was sure. I told them they can talk till they are blue in the face but this is important to me and I am NOT going to change. I demanded respect. I told them if you want me to respect your views then you need to respect mine and an equal human being to you.
And with my bf....that I am not going to change so he has a choice. He can continue to fight with me forever if that's his idea of fun. Or we can agree that we will always disagree and agree not to ever discuss it again. He agreed to that. He got angry a couple more times after than and then we finally agreed to disagree and to never discuss it again. That worked for us.
Funny thing is that Tarot is what MADE me more spiritual, brought out my spiritual side and made me believe in God and the angels. I did not before. Tarot is what gave me that. For that I am eternally grateful.
My parents and sister were all athiests. I was brought up that God did not exist and was something people made up to make them feel better about the randomness of life. That was my upbringing and what I was taught growing up.
Then I found Tarot and it was like a miracle in my life. Something was answering me each and every time, hundreds and thousands of times in a row. There was clearly an intelligence to life that can and does answer us in kind lovings ways. This to me IS God. I had to come to terms with whatever it was that WAS answer me. And to me that is God or sometimes the angels through God.
To me doing a reading is that much of a spiritual sacred thing for me. It is literally a communication with the Divine. My cards are sacred tools to me through which God gives me permission and the honour of helping others and passing on the messages I am meant to,
I know that is not how everyone sees it, but that is my way of seeing it. So I never get ti how people can think it is something evil, it is to me the purest for of communication with the Divine. All we need to do is turn off our thoughts and really listen so we can hear what is being told to us. To me it is the exact opposite of evil, just pure goodness and light.
To me, it could not be more beautiful.
I agree you can't tell just anyone you are a reader. But that is the beauty if AT.
It gives you many many people who you CAN openly discuss it with.
Babs