Deana
Violating the meanings? How is that possible? How can the cards mean anything at all unless they mean something to me personally? And how can anyone tell me what they mean to me personally except...me?
Example: a lot of people go on and on about how the Five of Cups means that the person is looking at the bad but ignoring the good. Just cheer up, right? I was at a funeral one time, and a woman had lost three of her kids in a car accident. One was a twin. The other twin lived. Someone actually said to her, at the funeral, "Well, at least you still have two [of your five kids]. At least one of the twins is still here." I'm sorry, but that doesn't really ease the grief of losing the other three kids. And to me the Five of Cups means the person needs to grieve and if someone tries to rush the grieving process or tells them to look on the "bright side" that person needs kicked in the shins.
Example: a lot of people go on and on about how the Five of Cups means that the person is looking at the bad but ignoring the good. Just cheer up, right? I was at a funeral one time, and a woman had lost three of her kids in a car accident. One was a twin. The other twin lived. Someone actually said to her, at the funeral, "Well, at least you still have two [of your five kids]. At least one of the twins is still here." I'm sorry, but that doesn't really ease the grief of losing the other three kids. And to me the Five of Cups means the person needs to grieve and if someone tries to rush the grieving process or tells them to look on the "bright side" that person needs kicked in the shins.