Zephyros
I prefer the negative golden rule which, although not found in the Old Testament is nevertheless regarded as an important edict.
On the other hand, Jesus sums it up as
The negative is, in my opinion, both far more freeing and also more in accord with Will. You don't have to love everyone, turn the other cheek or be crucified for their sins, but merely to follow the orbit of your own Will while not interfering with anyone else's.
"That which is hateful to you, do not do to your fellow. That is the whole Torah; the rest is the explanation; go and learn."
—Talmud, Shabbat 31a
On the other hand, Jesus sums it up as
"Do to others what you want them to do to you. This is the meaning of the law of Moses and the teaching of the prophets.
Luke 6:31"
The negative is, in my opinion, both far more freeing and also more in accord with Will. You don't have to love everyone, turn the other cheek or be crucified for their sins, but merely to follow the orbit of your own Will while not interfering with anyone else's.