Elven
Hi Horace
just my two cents worth
Compassion is the greatest gift you can take with you when you go to her - it will protect you and allow you to give and recieve - she is not an empty vessel - and the interaction and exchange does not need to be draining or taking something from you which you cannot give.
True compassion, not feeling sorry for her, but the deep unconditional understanding of her situation and yours, sheilds and nutures you both. Compassion holds within it a pure love for self and others - it cannot dimminish, and goes to heal where it is needed most.
Try to be aware of your part in the human exchange of compassion - she will feel the difference and her inner fears may disolve somewhat, the energy will change, and the interaction will feel 'different'.
Keep a protective light bubbled around you, wear what ever stones you feel necessary - such as those which will balance and protect you, ground you and yet enable love and compassion to flow. You could help her by cleansing the room she is in or even visualize her in a crystal cradle of protection, healing and comfort - instead of acold and sterile bed - she is possibley lying in the residue of many confused, sick or passed over Souls. The vibration in these places can be very erratic, so something soothing around her would help. Maybe even a crystal or a talisman for her. She may not remember who gave it to her, she may loose it - whatever! Leave something with her that helps her when others are not there to comfort her. A little gold angel or a picture - some flowers - it all makes a difference. But compassion and unconditional love are the most poweful!
Blessings Elven x
just my two cents worth
Compassion is the greatest gift you can take with you when you go to her - it will protect you and allow you to give and recieve - she is not an empty vessel - and the interaction and exchange does not need to be draining or taking something from you which you cannot give.
True compassion, not feeling sorry for her, but the deep unconditional understanding of her situation and yours, sheilds and nutures you both. Compassion holds within it a pure love for self and others - it cannot dimminish, and goes to heal where it is needed most.
Try to be aware of your part in the human exchange of compassion - she will feel the difference and her inner fears may disolve somewhat, the energy will change, and the interaction will feel 'different'.
Keep a protective light bubbled around you, wear what ever stones you feel necessary - such as those which will balance and protect you, ground you and yet enable love and compassion to flow. You could help her by cleansing the room she is in or even visualize her in a crystal cradle of protection, healing and comfort - instead of acold and sterile bed - she is possibley lying in the residue of many confused, sick or passed over Souls. The vibration in these places can be very erratic, so something soothing around her would help. Maybe even a crystal or a talisman for her. She may not remember who gave it to her, she may loose it - whatever! Leave something with her that helps her when others are not there to comfort her. A little gold angel or a picture - some flowers - it all makes a difference. But compassion and unconditional love are the most poweful!
Blessings Elven x