WhiteRaven
I've not been with this wonderful forum for that long. I'm learning so much from you all. I have had on occasion the Hierophant as the outcome. There are so many wonderful ideas here. My comments possibly confirm what has already been said before.
With the Hierophant and Temperance, my thoughts are that harmony can be achieved if you can balance spiritual and earthly values together.
To do this you both may have to undergo some uncomfortable confrontations within your psyche. With Temperance, the Hierophant may be asking both of you to pay attention to how you project your energies onto one another. Temperance may be asking you to present yourself as the true expression of what is inside you. Then you and your friend with have the freedom and relaxation that comes when your body, mind, and emotions have equal acceptance for each other.
With the Hieorphant and Temperance in a relationship spread for myself I would ask "Why can't I just be myself no matter where I am or who I'm with?" We are so brilliantly adaptable. Our ever changing personality is who we are. It is the result of being yourself, being honest with your feelings, and hoping for the same spontaneity from others.
These marvelous characteristics are what make other people feel so relaxed in your presence, and should never be curbed by your own or society's misconceptions about free expression. Adaptability is one of the principle talents life has given us so that we can comfortably experience more variety in life.
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