SunChariot
But would it have been "wrong" of ravenest to refuse to read for this guy if he had known the situation before he read?
It's a tough call, and considering ravenest's admitted issues with domestic violence and all it entails, I think the deception by omission on the sitter's part was rather scummy. Maybe weasel-ish is a better word? Though I guess it did spare ravenest from having terribly bruised and scraped knuckles!
My call is : no. I could not have read for someone either who has committed domestic abuse. And yes that is part of my past too, I left when he almost killed me and I could have not made it out alive. I was lucky that I did.
That being said we, as readers, have the right to not read for anyone that it does not feel right to us to read for. Just as we have the right to refuse to read on any question that we do not feel right about asking.
We are the readers, it is not an obligation to read if something does not feel right about it. Not to mention, that we usually CAN'T read well when we are not calm and centered. I know, for me I could not read for someone who seriously stressed me. Knowing the person had been abusive would be enough that I could not focus or read for them properly.
Babs