Grigori
rachelcat said:But one look at the Thoth Lovers, and you can tell it’s not about love--maybe potential for love. But it’s not about choice, either.
I think this card is about both Choice and Love, but maybe not in the usual sense. This might be very helpful, to think of what definition of Love is being used. Its about Love as the union of opposites, opposites being bought together in order to for a new thing to be created (the figure on the Art card perhaps).
But then there’s Eve and Lilith. Obviously not masculine and feminine. Some have suggested virgin and whore (good and evil?), but if we pay attention to the story, I’m thinking more obedient and rebellious. Or even other-motivated and self-motivated.
Or perhaps the Choice, as in the Marseille style Lovers. The light and the dark female archetypes, as there is the fair and the dark woman in the Marseille Lovers.
Cupid is obviously the Love part of the Lovers card. The book says his quiver has Thelema inscribed on it. (I’ll have to take it’s word for it!) That is kind of contradictory. The whole point of Cupid’s arrows (pun intended!) is that they are irresistible, even to the gods. So what does that have to do with Will? More opposites, probably intended . . .
And in gematria, Agape (meaning love of a spiritual kind) is 93, as is Thelema meaning will. So Will is the same as Love. That was a bit of a lightbulb for me, now I finall understand why thelemites go around saying 93/93. Love under Will.
Does that mean the king and queen are Chokmah and Binah? But, if so, they are reversed . . .
Or maybe seen from behind. Or maybe the Binah/Black Queen has given her cup to the Chokmah/White King, who has also given his lance to his Queen. Like the exchanging of rings at a wedding.
Then that night we had a fight. I think the card is saying now you know where you are at odds/what separates you (like the swords). Knowing the problem is the beginning of creating a new life/relationship together. Like I said in the beginning, not Love, romantic or otherwise, but the potential for love.
I also ways struggled with this idea, the card about union being attributed to the sword which is about division. The idea of 0=2 made me happy though. From the BoL "I am divided for Love's sake", the division is so that union/Love is possible. Apart, together, apart, together etc... Perhaps the card of make-up-sex