Kissa said:
i am a scorpio, i am the other woman and i do have dark hair.
i have absolutely no idea how you came to that funny conclusion about scorpio love triangles but here are my thoughts: scorpios love complicated intense situation, they love pissing ppl and do forbidden things to make ppl mad. Scorpios love in a very intense way as well that can be hard to stand on a daily basis for their partner and finally Scorpios get bored easily or disappointed and once you've disappointed them it is hard to come back to their favourite ppl's circle, that's why the lovers thing-forbidden love-affairs stuff works well for Scorpios: their partner keeps the mystery longer...
at least that's how i experience it and i know some scorpios will say that they are not like this at all. i don't like so much when ppl say "scorpios" this or that, but it is true we all scorpios have something in common. i know of not so pretty scorpio women who have an incredible success with men because men are attracted by these women's s raw untammed energy. some guys with a very pretty blond wife a la Californian dream will take a wild brunette scorpio for a lover. there is life and death energy in scorpios that is a mystery and a source of attraction to many.
just read a very interesting thing about scorpios that really rang a bell for me: what scorpios want the most is also what they fear the most: a fullfilled, faithful, well-balanced relationship. and with their tendancy to play with fire and their taste for self destruction, many scorpios never admit to themselves what they really want and would rather keep playing naughty in doomed from the start kind of relationships.
once scorpios have tammed the beast inside or their inner demons and admit to themselves what they really want, they can work on a long-term happy love relationship.
i think you've hit the nail on the head.
I'm a scorpio too, and pretty much fit the stereotype. I'm not a big fan of messing with other people's relationships tho (been on the other end of that), but for me there is always a compelling need to conquer involved. (i'm also a double Aries - my astrolgoist like's to say I don't take lovers, I take hostages). I just want to break a cocky bastard that thinks he can have his cake and eat it too, and have him on his knees begging for whatever i'm willing to give him.
that's a very evil streak tho, so i try to keep it in check. But the idea of the available guy ready and willing to do the same just turns me off. too easily had. I guess this is why I always wind up in some sort of unavailability thing. Not necessarily other woman, but I choose the guy in another country and seduce him mentally, or find one locally that offers me lots of competition (ie my current guy and his groupies - I will break him)
my test invariably is to not buy into the passion myself, because giving all of me to someone i've seduced into a frenzy,
a. ruins the magic by making me suddently easily attainable, and
b. leaves me extra-vulnerable to getting my heart stomped, because when i drop the shell and put away the stinger, i really am just so much soft flesh ready to be chewed up and spit out.