Hi Azarial..
This is what I'm learning.
Because the herkimer diamond is a type of quartz, It can be used to inhance the qualities of the rose quartz. The herkimer diamond is a great immune builder for the body. It filters toxins in the blood and boosts the body's self-healing. The rose quartz is a good immune builder for the heart. It also builds an immunity to dangerous emotions, like jealousy. I call it the, 'he's not good enough for you,anyway' stone.
(It helped a friend stop 'stalking' her ex
)
Seems your 'helpers' might be trying to get you to re-act to a situation and not to the emotion involved in that situation. That would set up an opportunity/accomplishment for you to gain a lot of self LOVE and more self confidence. Maybe you should try picturing yourself as the diamond, lying on a bed of rose quartz. Any emotions coming at or through you would then be filtered through the rose quartz. I see you there all cuddley and floating in pink..
BTW, I've learned these self-help methods only work if you remember them BEFORE you speak! LOL
and I'm very new at crystal 'talk'. Hh