What a fascinating thread you started Nikita
- took me quite a while to go through all the posts, but it was well worth it ...
Ditto!
I will mention this, for what it is worth: I have had readings that showed extra happy cards as the outcome, and it set my hair on fire :/ (and by that I mean with trepidation, not joy!)
Let me give you a true example: my dog was badly injured, and I asked if he would heal. He had an injury that some dogs heal quite well from, some not at all. So the odds were split. The cards all came up as Sun, The World, Ace of Wands, etc. When I saw those cards, I immediately shivered with the realization that he would soon be dead. How could I think that, given the happy cards? Because I asked if he would heal; the cards were happy; my gut lurched in a bad way; and sure enough, death has healed him very much. As soon as I saw the cards, I knew it. Call it intuition (hotly debated elsewhere here in the forums!) or foresight or what you will - I just
knew the meaning at the moment the cards came out, even if I desperately wanted to believe he would be ok....in any case, the point is, the cards were correct.
I don't know if this is a good enough simile to make anyone understand, but it has been my experience in many readings that the happy cards may be answering something we are not entertaining as a possibility. It may be, for your friend who had three readers give her three happy outcomes, that it is true in a way she does not see yet; that NOT getting the guy was the best possible blessing....! If the question was, will there be a happy ending with this guy, maybe the answer was yes, it is a happy ending - because it is not the right guy for her. So from a tarot point of view, it is a happy ending - perhaps because her true prince was the next man she'd meet, should she be single. (forgive me if I got the question wrong - I have read through the whole thread in a single sitting, and I feel dazed...I cannot exactly paraphrase your question about the querant, beyond does tarot answer accurately every time).
Sometimes, I find, the cards come at something from a very oblique angle. What set my hair on fire with the happy answer for my dog, and for other, assorted happy cards I have had as future predictors in other questions, is that the event will bring a joy of some kind or another, even if it is not immediately apparent. To my heavily injured dog, the cards of joy and healing were a blessing, indeed, as he has been euthanized, and is likely feeling ecstatic as he romps through the Elysian fields, freed of the yoke of injury and pain. (*I* am upset, and do not feel happy, but the cards were about the dog, not me...and about healing, not about "will he live through this?" (and even that is debatable, because many people have many different ideas about the afterlife - I personally believe he lives on, but that is besides the point).
I believe the cards always answer accurately, just perhaps not in a linear fashion, or not in a way we personally understand as readers - at least, not from a face value point of view...Often, it is something only our (disputed) gut can see and understand. (I can cite at least Debra on that, I think? It is not an A + B = C scenario...sorry if I read that incorrectly, Debra!)
Thank you, Nikita, for a question few would ask, and I thank everyone for their fascinating insight! Much to think on....
ETA thinking about it overnight, as some have said here, readings can take a long time to eventuate; perhaps she will run into this man again at a later date, and it *will* work out for them...and the tarot was seeing farther into the future.