Desert Girl
I'm having a difficult decision regarding how to proceed with someone who is frustrating me at the moment. The ball is currently in my court, as he messaged me last night and I don't know if I should proceed and respond or just ignore him. I asked what action I should take towards him and received Four of Cups. I look at this card two ways, and I'm not sure what's more likely. 1. I have been offered something (communication) and I should consider it instead of refusing; or 2. The man is ignoring the cup offered on the card - perhaps a more literal interpretation is telling me to ignore the person instead.