nord_drache
I can definitely say that this is something when thought about concerns me. I am always emotionally invested in those I care about being one who when it comes to friends prefers quality over quantity.
Jim
Jim
You need to "school" yourself as Ace pointed out. Tell yourself this----"this is about the sitter, it's not about me." The cards are telling the sitter something in a language they may not be fluent in and you're just the interpreter.
And as far as seeing things in the cards you strongly identify with, that doesn't mean the reading is about you. It just means you share things in common with your sitter. We don't live in a vacuum and we aren't unique. We're all human and we all have many things in common with other people.
I was wondering if anyone had any tips on keeping personal feelings away from readings, especially when reading for someone you have a strong connection with?
Thanks!
I also won't read for my husband. The few times I have it hasn't gone well - too close to the subject, I guess.
My readings for my sister have also been iffy - depends on how close we are at the time,
I am fine reading for friends and other family members, because I just let the cards do the talking and kind of take a step back, metaphorically speaking. But those two it's tougher.