Well, I think I got the answer to that today! He is military and cannot be with a foreigner (Which I am in his country) unless he discloses it properly and is legally involved (married) to me. So, this could be the block as to why he's not moving in more concretely for the time being.
We had it out today as I had someone cross-check his identity in his base. It didn't cross-check out right. He was wild when I told him. But I did say I had no means to verify who he said he was.
That will be revealed a little later I guess.
As above. It could be the legal aspect of the block. He does insist he wants me to be his wife.
I was a little deceitful myself going for this background/cross check my friend offered (she has contacts). But I told him as soon as the report came back. That was interesting this happened so quickly. His identity isn't confirmed to me yet. I understand there's something more to it than that... am just waiting to see what it is exactly.
It was! Sorry my feedback may be a bit spy-movie type