Al Si'ra
I think i will have to go with Katrina here...Of course..depends on the other cards as well..but mostly i've seen this card as male wanting to dominate the female; wishing to get all he can without giving much back- and i see this card sometimes as having a neverending source of love-in most cases this is the woman-the man drinks from that source-traditional decks portray the 9 of cups guy as fat-so there is excess-and in relationship cases it's the excess of feelings-he gets and gets and niver gives back so that is what makes him *fat*-he has to someway get rid of the excess-that could be by sharing or releasing the hidden feelings inside or with a mutual love relationship-where both receiving and giving back takes place..but that guy keeps the cups to himself..I would say the male want to dominate the female..
quite diffeerent from you guys..but it is accurate for the relationshhip readings for my friends
9s are related to Hermit..and with all 9s i see some sort of isolation-shutting down and not really sharing-being on your own..