So right now I'm sitting down, pondering on how uncomfortable the past week has been, I recognize that truly I have been doing Shadow Work again
I usually do not do it for such a long time at once, just now and then. I must say that at least it has really allowed me to work on things and not shove them under the rug.
So, as an exercise I first spend around 5 minutes with some lovely Crystals and reminding myself that I love and accept myself as I am. I don't think I made the 5 minutes, but alright... I'm impatient sometimes
Then I sat and talked to Ta'Om.
Ta'Om told me that no, it hasn't been easy for me to walk around this past week, mostly because the week around the birthdays of me, my mom and my brother is always hard on me and this time I chosen to work on the darker parts of myself.
This past week I have seen pettiness in myself. It wasn't pretty, but I was very happy that my parents were in front of a closed door as they had refused to come to my birthday and then planned a 'surprise' visit. I knew they were coming, I also planned to be out... Petty, very petty.
Ta'Om wanted to tell me the story of how the good thinking parents did the bad thing but I told him I already knew that one... I'm still looking for forgiveness in my heart sometimes... I asked which Fae could help me and I got: Flaff the Flooter, who is with me a lot to tell me to ground, earth, center and just be myself
This past week I've seen a very big amount of wallowing in myself, as I grasped other people's sorrow and ran with it. I need to stop doing that. I need to let other people have their sorrow and just be honest. I didn't make this guy fall in love with me, I can't help what he has chosen, but he's making me uncomfortable with his behavior and it needs to stop. I've been overlooking how much this is pissing me off, because all I've been doing is feeling his sorrow, dreaming his sorrow and being upset.
Ta'Om wanted to tell me the story of the girl who felt everybodies sorrow but her own, but I told him I already knew that one too and it didn't have a happy ending before! I need to look more for myself sometimes then others, as I had planned this evening full with help for others, but none for myself, although I've been ill and tired for a while now. I switched it around though, recognizing that *I* need to resolve issues.
I asked which Fae could help me with this situation together with Ta'Om and I got: The Guardian at the Gate. Time to step into this change and let this old behavior go.
This week I've seen old destructive paths come back, including not sleeping, that I thought I had conquered. Man.... that sucked big time!
Ta'Om wanted to talk to me about the story of the woman who thought she needed no sleep, but I told him I already knew that one and I was too tired to listen. He told me no Fae had to help me with this as I seemed to have it in hand and would I please go and watch a nice TV episode before going to bed and just pamper myself a bit instead of doing deep soul searching and shit...
Ta'Om has a way of making me smile, the slimey bugger
So I told him to go ahead and watch an episode of the Closer with me.
Kahlie