Bernice
YEP! It works. Thanks Mel.
Bee
Bee
Wow. Great spread, spot on!Flavio said:Mel:
Thank you very much for sharing this 3 card all-purpose spread. I was wondering how would you apply it when the Quesited is some attitude, habit or pattern of the Querent? for example, the Quesited is a drinking problem or drug abuse the Querent wants to quit, would you handle it as in previous example about making furniture?
Here is one example in the hopes to explain myself clearer, the Querents wants to quit smoking by pure force of will and wants to know if he will succeed.
Card #1 (The Querent) = LE SOLEIL
Card #2 (The Quesited) = LE DIABLE
Card #3 (How they interact) = Ace of Batons
The Querent feels optimistic about his intention but the habit is deep rooted in him, quitting will represent a huge effort, as I see it, his will is not enough to quit smoking.
Was it right? thank you very much for your comments.
Thank you for the comment, unfortunately the spread was "designed" as an example to confirm how to deal with such Quesited issues, anyway given the "individual effort" outcome and the buddy in LE SOLEIL is a great idea to make a new spread for "grupal effort" Thank you!sravana said:I wouldn't say that he could not do it, just that it will be quite difficult. Throw another spread, looking at outcomes if he joins a support group or some such?
Flavio said:Mel:
Thank you very much for sharing this 3 card all-purpose spread. I was wondering how would you apply it when the Quesited is some attitude, habit or pattern of the Querent? for example, the Quesited is a drinking problem or drug abuse the Querent wants to quit, would you handle it as in previous example about making furniture?
Here is one example in the hopes to explain myself clearer, the Querents wants to quit smoking by pure force of will and wants to know if he will succeed.
Card #1 (The Querent) = LE SOLEIL
Card #2 (The Quesited) = LE DIABLE
Card #3 (How they interact) = Ace of Batons
The Querent feels optimistic about his intention but the habit is deep rooted in him, quitting will represent a huge effort, as I see it, his will is not enough to quit smoking.
Was it right? thank you very much for your comments.
Well.... hmmm.... that's what I thought, with the spread as it is! Because the Interaction card is 'obsession'.... (However Mel has said it far better in a shorter/pithy way ).Mel said:
The interesting thing is - if the quesited was a more dignified card, the 'obsession' of the Ace of Batons might roll the other way. The querent becomes obsessed with quitting.
Bernice said:Well.... hmmm.... that's what I thought, with the spread as it is! Because the Interaction card is 'obsession'.... (However Mel has said it far better in a shorter/pithy way ).
Am I 'reading' this spread round the wrong way? There are times when I need a ciggy to clear my head......... :
Bee
Thank you Mel for the confirmation and additional insights on the reading's takes.Melanchollic said:Spot on Flavio! That's how I would have read it.
Bee, I noticed the 'heavy' fire here too. Where there's smoke there's fire.... hehe..
The interesting thing is - if the quesited was a more dignified card, the 'obsession' of the Ace of Batons might roll the other way. The querent becomes obsessed with quitting.