There are a number of homegrown spreads posted by ATers. Look in the Index (located at the top of the Spreads forum as a Note or click
here). The index for Crossroads and Decision Making Spreads is in post 4. The one's I've added to my spreads database are:
I also have a spread that I've attributed to Lunalafey, but I can't find it in the index or by searching. If someone else posted/created it, I'd love to have the correct info. I've called it the Caught Between Two Spread. I don't know if that's the original name or if I created/changed the name to be that.
........14..........
...1....2.....3.....
......4.....5.......
.8....6.....7.....9
12...10...11...13
(4 and 5 are supposed to be directly over 6 and 7)
1-3: Querent's needs in the relationship
1. Heart
2. Mind
3. Soul
4. How Person A will fulfill those needs
5. How Person B will fulfill those needs
6. Person A's pros
7. Person B's pros
8. Person A's cons
9. Person B's cons
10. Querent's subconscious feelings about Person A
11. Querent's subconscious feelings about Person B
12. Person A's feelings
13. Person B's feelings
14. Guidance/advice
Hope one of these is helpful to you.
Rodney